Is it normal , i had sex with my friend
Went to a party at halloween and got quite drunk and somehow I ended up with my tongue down my friends throat and on his knee. Then we were taken upstairs haha and we kinda started foreplay and stuff but we didn't have sex as he didn't have a condom. But later that night when we had sobered up, I stayed at his house and we decided to have sex.( we were both 17 and virgins btw, and It was really awkward and painful for me and I feel bad for not enjoying it more) but we tried it a few more times and then cuddled.(love cuddling lol). We haven't talked about it alot, but he asked me 'does this mean we are in a relationship now?' , I couldn't say yes, I don't know if I want that. It's very confusing, I don't regret it at all but i don't know i want more from him. Also the next day my legs were killing me! and 'down there was sore' and now my period is late,, I know I'm not pregnant as people say that happens but it's still scary! Is all this normal?