Is it normal 2 have borderline personality disorder caused by youth?

my parents really made my childhood awful therefore I have grown to be a very bitter adult..(ya ya ya I know its the past and it means I am letting them win by not moving forward- whatever people suck) ya ok but all my past relationships have been horrible by mentally messed up guys too...

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  • college

    Yes it's normal.

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    • I figured

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  • gummy_jr

    To**
    Not 2

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    • Whatever

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  • RoseIsabella

    I read somewhere that BPD comes from being invalidated as a child.

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    • yes that is "partially true" cause I went through that as a child which is why I am a very angry and bitter adult now

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      • RoseIsabella

        Have you ever heard of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) or Systems Training for Emotional Predictability and Problem Solving (STEPPS)?

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        • As a matter of fact I am learning it right now .. I have a workbook that teaches me the steps the only thing that I find not fair about it is that I am fixing myself while those two continue to act like idiots so I feel like I am wasting my time and divorce is looking like more of an option with everyday that goes on... I kinda feel like my whole life everyone has always focused on me but never themselves which is not right at all..

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Ya I was bullied my entire childhood and teens and am now a very bitter and angry adult.

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    • At least we can relate but my crap was done by own family starting with dear old dad

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        My dad used to be abusive too although not sexually.

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        • Same here

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