Is it normal 2 feel ur falling in love with people you hardly know?

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Hi guys. For as long as I can remember, I have always felt attracted to almost every guy I meet...
(No not in a slutty way !lol!)
Falling 'in love' with my teachers, getting horrendous crushes on them and guys I hardly knew. I am EXTREMELY attracted to older guys. I'm in my late teens, so suffice to say some people find it quite 'unusual' that I find 30/40 upwards men VERY sexy. No I'm not 'easy' or any of that before you reply with that answer guys!!! I also went to the doctor for therapy type work and he's an older man, say 40+, OH MY GOD do I find him sexy. He's also foreign which doesn't help. All I have to say is does anyone have any similar experiences? and as you can see from reading my story, its interfering with mostly all of my relationships, preventing me to have 'normal/friendly' relationships with men and I don't want these feelings to blight any of my future friendships/whatever.
(**My dad died before I was born and have never had a stable male role model)
Thanks! xo

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  • lsuccv
    13 years ago

    I think with hormones bouncing all over the place its easy to misinterpret feelings. I am going to give you one piece of advice from personal expreience though and say that dating someone youre own age is far more beneficial- the older guys get (especially the single ones) the more baggage they collect.Go for a younger model while you can.
    Maybe it's a craving for intimacy that you yearn for rather than feeling love?

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Maybe your looking for a father figure. Or maybe your not sure on healthy boundaries with guys due to not having a father figure.

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