Is it normal 2 b upset at friend who says she's broke but still spends
So my friend and i planned to go traveling about a few years ago, but she said she didn't have any money. Ok I thought, that is fair enough. Even when I asked her to go with me to FL (we're both in CA) last year, she said she couldnt afford it. All other travel plans we made were also put on hold and never realized, because she said she has no vacation time or money.
Then, last year, after she told me she couldnt come to FL with me for spring break, I found out she went visiting another friend in FL (same town!) only a few months later. Earlier this year I saw her having gone to some tropical island which she says she didnt pay for to stay - cause her uncle lives there - so supposedly she could afford it - but just the same.
I did confront her and tried not to be bothered by it, but it DOES bother me. It is so insincere. She says she has no time and money, but she apparently has time and money for others? She said she doesnt understand why I even care and why it bothers me. She also told me it was none of my business how she got the money to go there, as she doesnt owe me anything or even explanations. But that is not the point. I just think it is insincere of her to tell me she doesnt have time/money to go traveling with me, but she does have time and money to plan travels with others.
Maybe i am missing something here. Is my reaction out of the ordinary? Would other feel weird too, like something ws not right? Do i really have no right to either tell her about it or even let it bother me? What would others do in my place? Am I weird being bothered by this?