Is it normal 23 and work pt?

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I love my bf but he's lazy. I go to school ft and work a lot. I want us to move in together soon but idk if he will be resposible enough and I don't want to feel like I'm his mom or pulling all of the financial weight. He is a cashier with no motivation to do anything else. He is almost perfect in every other sense but this makes me mad. I try to tell him to AT LEAST work ft but he gets mad. Anyway, is it normal to not want to work ft and be 23?!

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  • Abtanazahx
    13 years ago

    he sounds smart to me. Why would you want to spend all your time working at a job you hate? It doesn't make sense to waste your life like that. There are other ways of making money. If he is happy not having a full time job, why would you want to take that away from him. He's 23 ffs. There's a whole lot of living left to do before you need to be settling down and that whole shtick. Would you rather he got a full time job, came home exhausted every night and resented you for forcing him into a "career"?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well I wouldn't want to work full time at a crappy cashier minimum wage. He should get a real job and maybe that's gonna motivate him. Maybe try helping him find something that can interest him and end this problem.

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  • winkletoes
    13 years ago

    Run while you can!!!!

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    He probably doesnt want work hard, bc his mommy & daddy take care of him. Hes lazy & if I were you I wouldnt even THINK hes mature enough to get a place with you...until he gets a better job or TRIES/WANTS to better himself. Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.

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  • gbulldawg5
    13 years ago

    Your man is a lazy peice of trash, it's time for him to grow the hell up and start acting like man, if he doesn't do that then leave him.

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