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So my boyfriend wants to be more freaky in the bed and tie me up and spank me. I've never tried this but does anyone have an opinion about being kinky in the bed? Thanks
You should at least try it for him and see if you enjoy it just as much as him!
Sure! Try it!
You've developed trust with your BF, so try the experience of being helplessly under his control and get a spanking (Ask for a "Good Girl Spanking"
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FIRST discuss what you're going to do, what each of you expects from the other, and what's out of bounds. Use a code like traffic lights: Green=MORE!, Yellow=take it easy, Red=STOP--absolutely stop everything! Your first session should be light spanking without being tied up--save that for next time. Again, start light the first time (you moderating with the traffic light code) and you can go up a notch next time after you've discussed it.
Enjoy!
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I don't like the idea of it but my boyfriend does, he's into anything kinky really and he's made it clear that he prefers it rough, but to be honest the thought of getting spanked or spanking him doesn't really appeal to me!
Enjoy it!
Just have a code word picked out before hand. Hell take an active role in this and pick out your own toys too.
I picked out my own handcuffs and flail. (actually the cuffs were real ones too - smith & wesson!)
and u don't get hurt even low that excites me to but its what ever tickles your fancy
get whipped cream and you ..... spray on your self and make him lick it off i'm a man and when my girlfriend first did this i smashed my t.v cuz i was in such a rush to get to the bedroom for more
thats not even getting close to kinky :)
Well, maybe the spanking bit goes in the direction.
But "tie me up" is, i believe, the most mainstream non-mainstream sexual practise there is. I hardly know someone that hasn't at least given it a try yet.