Is it normal~

Okay so my boyfriend wants to try anal sex but I've never done it. I wanted to get some advice about how it feels. I heard that after a while it feels better then regular sex but I would like some insight on it from other people. Thanks(:

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  • drbishop

    It really depends on how do it first. You may get to like it if you do it properly. Yes some - not many - says that it can be better than vaginal sex.
    A tip if you don't want it to hurt, don't start the things straight with anal, do vaginal sex before. It is going to help a lot.
    Use condom and lots of lube, for example this one:
    http://goo.gl/ANpKF
    And do things slow at first and with a partner who respects you

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  • Gelmurag

    Ok, if you are seriously considering anal sex there are a few things you need to keep in mind.

    The cleaner you are, the better and safer, it is for both you and your partner. How do you get clean? That starts with an enema. There are lots and lots of different types of enemas out there, some as small as a tiny syringe, and some that looks like they could drown an elephant. The point is, an enema (or in reality enema series) will flush any poo out of you. It will also moisturize your very sensitive tissue inside. The how's you can look up online. However, I would suggest using just plain water until you get some experience built up with them. Preferably, bottled water, since tap water can contain nasty things you don't want inside you.

    So now that your clean (and thoroughly wiped. I say the best is enema -> shower -> anal -> cleanup(another shower?)) its time to move onto the most important part. LUBE. I prefer astroglide, as KY will sometimes cause me to get to sensitive inside and irritate a vein. Anyway, if you used a bulb syringe, or have a baby medicine dropper *something you can fill with the lube and "inject" yourself* is the easiest, and best way. It gets the lube inside, where you need it to be. Once you have a squirt or two of lube inside you, its time to get a finger lubed up. Slowly insert it, wiggle it around,make a circle with it, etc. Once you start to relax, try a second finger. Repeat. Three fingers. Once you do three without much fuss, its time for the real deal. Make sure he lubes up *notice a lube theme?* and after the fingers are removed, replace them with his member.

    Have him go slow at first, as deep as you can take. Remember to breath, and relax. Eventually its going to feel like you have to poo a little. But poo in a good way. It might build and you may get the urge to push. Its ok to push because your clean. That should make the feeling increase, and at this point its a mater of what feels good to you. Do it just right, and you can have an orgasm entirely from anal sex.

    All the girls I know love anal. All the guys I've known to try it, loved it. Basically its a super relaxing backwards poop over and over again.

    Hope that helped.

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  • kawaiimofo

    Well, the first time I did it with my boyfriend, it hurt so bad I cried. We used lube and went in very slowly. Now whenever I even try it I shake and start to cry. It's just not my thing. But I'm sure other girls love it. So why not try it?

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  • IrishPotato

    Take it slow, it's going to hurt at first but after a while the pain is going to be pleasureable.

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  • JOHN000

    ur going to need lube or spit and ur gunna wanna take it slow first time round it will be worth it and let him cum inside u it will get him really horny and he want more i should know im a man

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  • ny22

    It hurts but it feel so good. Dont rush in slowly begin pushing the cock in further in further and then get faster and faster. It hurts at first but it is great.

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  • TerryVie

    What anal sex feels like?
    It feels like having a dick up your ass.
    Seriously: If he's doing it slow, you'll probably feel like your about to poop.
    I've never went as far as to consider it even close to regular sex. Yeah, after some experience(both of you and the one doing it to you) it can become rather enjoyable, but all in all, it's something i do for them, not me.
    I much prefer vaginal intercourse.

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  • dappled

    Google the best way to prepare and go about it. If he just rushes in like a bull at a gate it's going to *hurt*. It's going to hurt anyway but if you keep the discomfort level down, I'm told that the pain is sort of pleasurable.

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