Is it normal...

To be dating someone, but in love with someone else?

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58% Normal
Based on 69 votes (40 yes)
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  • DannyKanes

    It's not abnormal, it's just frowned upon. Like masturbating on a plane.

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  • Not abnormal, but, in many eyes in this society, wrong.

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  • deviantd

    that said

    I think most people who aren't in perfect relationships feel this way at some point. It's actually possible to fall in love with someone while you love someone else. I know, I've done it.

    I did what I thought was right at the time and broke up with the person I was with. I did what I had to do to stay sane, they were best friends and we all hung out a lot.

    I had a brief fling with the "other guy" and though I was totally in love with him it never worked out between us.

    Do I sometimes think I was wrong to break off the first relationship? yes, but most of the time I know it ended up being for the best.

    It's happened to a few other people I know as well. figure out why your are feeling the way you are. see if there is something you can do to fix it. decide if you want to stay or go

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  • PillowHumper

    No, Why are you wasting the other persons time and giving him false hopes. I had the same experience with someone else, i was on the bad end of it. It just pisses me off that the other person doesn't have the dignity of telling them that they feel for someone else and they let it keep going. Do him a favor and tell him as soon as possible. Thwe longer it goes the more pain there will be.

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  • Wow, your cool.

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  • chaosdragoon1

    ^^rofl. I can't remember where that line is from. Is it the Hangover?

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  • rustam0824

    ahahahahahahahahahaha. its normal to fall in love when your with someone. you can hope that the person your with can change how you feel about the person your in love with but if the person your in love with is still around then well hahaha idk what to tell ya. lol the guy your in love with must be on lucky son of a gun.

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    • rustam0824

      i mean its normal to fall in love with someone else when your dating someone

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  • O-M-F-G

    Fuck off how isnt it normal?

    How about you stop posting these pathetic stories that you know are normal so that the stories the website was created for can actualy be seen.

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    • deviantd

      are you the one who wrote about becoming snarky and cynical?

      this person needs some guidance, some perspective and some help figuring out their emotions. and I also think this is more common than you may think

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