Is it normal . . . sex!
I think about sex and want to have sex; but I'm scared to do it with anyone; I feel like my "body" is not normal. Is that normal!?
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93% Normal
Based on 231 votes
(215 yes)
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pink_05
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kittenkaboodell
What if it's daytime and you don't have blackout curtains? I know -- just put a blindfold on the guy and tie him up so he can't feel her abnormality either. Sounds exciting to me.
But then again, there is at least a slight chance the guy might notice that she weighs 475 lbs, has boobs so big they stick out 4 feet past her huge belly, has a giant hump on her back, is missing an arm, and that she's only 3 ft. tall, all before they get to the bedroom and she can hit the lights. Even if he doesn't notice all of that, the odds are better than even that he will notice at least one of those problems of hers, especially if she acts like she thinks she's abnormal. (LOL). If, however, she can learn to think of herself as normal, most likely no will ever notice any of that.
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CreativeThinker
Let me have a free checkup of your body I will then email you a detailed report free of cost....
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rayst
Lol what do you mean by "i feel like my "body" is not normal"? Do you have a 20 inch maul?
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KeddersPrincess
Sex isn't normal. There is nothing natural about sex. The stork brings babies. Everyone knows that!
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DannyKanes
It obviously shows even though you want to have sex, you're simply not ready. Just wait, the time will come.
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RuLisnyn2Me?
Depends on how old you are and how much exposure to life you have had and it's not necessarily uncommon to feel this way it's called growing up and becoming yourself
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ghettomex92
well you could do it in the dark, but it's funner to do it with the lights on so you can see your partner. I like doing it in the shower things are less messy that way :p
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nicole
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ghostmau5
I was always paranoid about my body, but what really helped was before we had sex, we explored each other, and I found that we both had flaws, not just me (and mind you, I always felt he was perfect). It really helped us get to know each other better, and in turn, made our paranoia of having the other one see us naked basically disappear.
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kittenkaboodell
By the way, why do you put the word "body" in quotes? Is you body so not normal that it is a body in name only and not recognizable as an actual human body. Has you head been transplated onto some kind of artificial "body" or body substitute? Is it kind of like that ad -- I just can't believe it's not "butter."
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kittenkaboodell
It all depends sweetie. How "not normal" is your body? But stop worrying. Unless you are like the Princess in the cartoon "Drawn Together" and you have huge snakes with teeth growing out of your crotch, there is nothing so "not normal" that there won't be tons of men who will get turned on specifically because of your "not normalness."
By the way, I couldn't tell if you want to know if you want to know if it's not normal to be scared to have sex (first time or no?) or if you want to know if it's normal to think your body is not normal.
More information is needed for a serious answer. If your body is actually not normal, then it many be perfectly normal to think it's not normal. If it is actually normal, then it is not normal to think it's not normal. Get me?
As for being scared of sex, if this is your first time or you've had a bad experience than being scared is normal. If you are the town slut, then being scared to have sex would not be normal.
If, on th4e other hand, no matter how many times you have had sex, you are afraid to have it because your body is not normal then that would be normal if your body is actually not normal, but not normal if your body is normal.
What's really not normal is to write your question like a teenage tweeter, limit the information you give to 140 characters, and then expect a serious, and realistic answer.
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[Old Memory]
when its your first time, its kinda scary because this person is going to see you naked... but you get over it quickly haha.
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