Is it norma for me to feel like a crap because my dad not in my life?

My father died in 1975.Life goes on,get over it.

I lost my father when i was 8 years old. He died in a car accident and life has never been easy for our family since then. I can understand your situation because a father's absence in one's life is harsh. I still wish i could bring him back but that is not going happen.
And i suggest you to move on.

I think it's very normal.

My parents died when I was 7 and even now at 24 I still get quite sad at times. You're not alone, and it's ok to feel bad. Sometimes crying can help let it out.

*hugs* Hang in there. Life gives us the bad parts so that the good parts feel that much more special <3

My dad died when I was young and apparently I was so depressed that my parents sent me to a psychiatrist! Why on earth would anyone send a 6 year old to a Adult psychiatrist!
I'm baffled. It took me a long time to get over it, but eventually I did. The part that makes me feel like crap is that my mother's side refused to let me get to know my dad's family and to make matters worst they told me lies that his family hated m and blah, blah, blah.

If your father isn't dead, you still have a chance to contact him. With me, the only thing I can contact is his family, but I still haven't made the move. You should get to know him or at least tell him while you still can.

Yeah, I feel like that too sometimes.

In a way, it sucks that he has a son in law he doesn't know about and someday he will have grand-kids that he won't know about. When Father's day passed by and I saw all of the little cute Facebook wall posts my friends posted about their Dads, I knew I couldn't "share" them, because I have no Father around to celebrate. No one to call, nothing.

He is not dead, if you were wondering. However, he has refused me as a child and I have complied. He is no longer in my life due to his choosing. It would be easier for me to deal, I think, if he were dead. At least then I would know that he isn't choosing to be absent from my life.

Unless he is dead (sorry for your loss) you should contact him and let him know how you feel.