Is it normàl that my partner complains i take too long to orgasm?

My partner complains that i take to long to orgasm. This makes it worse. I just want to say "get involved, use your hands too or give me more foreplay...." but i can't or they will be a big argument.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Your partner should be learning how to excite you... If they are not willing to try to do that... I think you should consider another partner.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yes!

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  • DADNSCAL

    You partner is self centered and a blamer. Like he/she has nothing to do with it. Maybe you need more stimulation or maybe you’re just not that into him/her.

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  • jrbsportz

    Well shit somebody not doing what they suppose to be doing making your partner fill good after sex if it takes all night hell get it done!!dam sex is fun relaxing and sometimes freaking rush,shouldn't have to be a choir.so quit fucking around and both of you start have orgasming together just saying from hard rock dude!!!

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    • 1WeirdGuy

      HARD ROCK DUDE IS BACKKK!! FUCKIN LEGEND

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  • SwickDinging

    Your partner sounds selfish in bed. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who complained I was taking too long.

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    • Thankyou, it means alot for me to know i wasn't wrong in the situ. I never tlod a friend or anyone face to face and felt terrible for years.

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      • SwickDinging

        You weren't wrong at all.

        Funnily enough, I bet you would orgasm a lot quicker with someone who didn't complain that you were taking too long

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        • Definately...

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  • Orphan

    In my 6 year relationship with my ex i was only able to make her cum once. I never bitched. We just didnt match sexually.

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  • fatok

    Pound her ass really fucking hard, she’ll stop bitching.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe you're just with the wrong person?

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    • Yeah thats true.but if my taking so long is such a bother for them why not give me stleast some genital stimulating foreplay not just a small amount of body caressing? Or use there hand during penetration. I do all that every time for my partner. Foreplay and manual during intercourse.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I dunno, you'll have to ask them.

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        • Bringing this up causes massive rows.

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          • RoseIsabella

            I'm just getting the impression that your partner is selfish, and perhaps the two of you are even incompatible in other ways as well.

            Are you perhaps afraid of being alone?

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  • Thankyou , a previous lover who had less experience knew just how to touch me so we orgasmed together exactly when they were going to ....

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