Is it nomal to feel it's too late?

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Like the tittle says, I waited too long to ask a girl to be my girlfriend and now I'm hurt and confuse. I met this girl more then 8 months ago. we became really close and trusted each other so much. At first I knew she had a crush on me because the way she acted around me and her friend approached me and told me she liked me. I decided to ignore this and continue our friendship as if I didn't know. I had not yet develop any feelings for her. After a few months I became very attach and I started liking her. But I did not ask her out, I told her I wasn't ready to start something. And now 4 months later when I make up my mind to ask her out, she tells me that she only sees me as a friend, that am her bestfriend and I want to be more then a friends.

I know I screwed my self up. I know I waited too long but I need her. I love her. Its extremely hard to admit this and specially telling her. But I don't want to lose her perhaps I already did but can anyone give me some a ideas.
what should I do to make her like me again?
... I believe that a great relationship is born out of a great friendship and we have that kind of friendship.
What am I doing wrong?

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    Maybe it's not you, but she. Never rush into a relationship. If she doesn't want to, move on. Find someone with whom you can first be friends, then lover's.

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  • stonecutters93
    13 years ago

    Honestly man I'm in the exact same situation. I waited too long to tell my best friend how I really felt about her after I knew she had feelings for me. Best advice I can give is just continue to be her friend and let time be the judge of what happens. If you're meant to be together it will happen.

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  • Cookies&Cream
    13 years ago

    You should be honest with her and tell her how you feel, if she doesnt feel the same tell her that If you can still be friends if she says yes then good for you. but there could be the posibility that she would stop talking to you. On the other hand she could feel the same, if you used to like you before.... but at the end of it all if its not meant to be it just isnt meant to be so just move on if this doesnt work for you.

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  • davegrohl
    13 years ago

    you should demonstrate that you can be her man
    think about it
    try to put in her shoes
    what would you expect if you were her?

    there's gotta be some way..especially if there was one

    be wise

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  • Zankokurai
    13 years ago

    This has happened to me before too....sucks

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  • tto10
    13 years ago

    U think she is playing hard... maybe cuz I letter so much time pass by....

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  • TheBoss92
    13 years ago

    the same situations happen to me all the time!!!!!! yes i hate it and have no clue what to do about it!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ur doin nothing wong shes just playing hard to get

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  • Faeedor
    13 years ago

    Take her to pound town.

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