Is it nomal that my two best friends have been ignoring me lately?

7 Comments

Okay, my two best friends have been ignoring me lately and when I do spend time with them, it's only for about five minutes. I've known my friends ever since I was four and they have been ignoring me for about a year now and I'm getting really tired of it. We all three used to be so close and were never apart and now my so-called best fiends just hang out together without me and I feel totally left out. When I text them, they don't answer back and they are always glued to their phones when I'm actually with them. They are too busiey texting each other and these boys. They apparently rather have a boyfriend then a bestfriend. Our motto is "Ya Girls Before These Crazy Boys" and I guess they don't care about that anymore either. Am I the only one out of us three who care about my best fiends or am I just going crazy? Should I just get new friends and forget about them or not? I wish it was how it used to be, us three always together, and if I had one wish, that would be exactly what I would wish for. Anyway, please help me with your comments and thank you for listening to my story.

Try to continue being friends? 1
Get new friends? 21
Tell them how I feel? 22
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 7 )
  • Marisol
    12 years ago

    Find out what is going on. This has unfortunately happened to some of us. It is trully sad, but there is not much that you can do about it (I think). Once those that you considered friends start to treat you that way, you realise that you have to move on with your life.

    Concentrate on things which are important to you. Start getting to know other people. This could lead into potential friendships. Don't be hard on yourself as I don't see how any of this could be your fault.

    Be your own bestfriend. Don't let fake friends get you down; it is not worth it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • Deidrabff
    11 years ago

    I've been through the same thing.

    My two best friends, Jamie and Kourtney, (this happended in third grade btw) were ignoring me. Everytime I tried to talk to them, they would stare at me and whisper to each other and laugh. I would get really mad and shout, "WHAT IS SOOOO FUNNY???" Then they would walk off. This kept happening until FINALLY they both came up to me, started crying, and started hugging me. Now we're in sixth grade and we are closer than ever.... especially Jamie and I!!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Tina2456
    11 years ago

    I know exactly what your talking about because I have been in this exact situation your are normal!
    All friendships eventually split up and it is very hard to deal with especially if your close it's okay all girls get bitchy and people don't always stay friends forever its time to move on and find new friends. If they dont want to include you then so be it I'm sure there is many Other girls that you can make friends with and just a tip dont become emotionally attached to people because look what happens they find new people and dont care about you anymore don't beat yourself up about it move on and live your life there are millions of other teens that I sure would love to be friends with you just put a smile on your face and spread your wings

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • mikel
    12 years ago

    Is your name Andrew Hoffman?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    Chances are that even if you tell them how you feel, you guys will never be able to truly reconnect your friendship. It sounds like they moved on and are to 'nice' to tell you. Either way you should probably confront them first and then possibly leave.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Alaska
    12 years ago

    You hace to confront them !

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Dulse.
    12 years ago

    Let them know that you feel sad the friendships are drifting apart. The responses you get in return could tell you quite a bit. If they don't want to be friends, I guess all you can do is respect their decision.

    Good luck, I hope they'll understand how you feel.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0