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he asked me to put makeup on before having sex, and I got very offended and we started arguing for a while and I ended up telling him that if he doesn't like how I look why doesn't he go date a prettier girl and the next day he did
all my friends are saying it my fault and that I should apologize and do what he want ,but that made me feel so insecure
Totally shallow and douchebag move on his part. You're better off without him. To frame it as an ultimatum or requirement for sex is rude af. There's nothing wrong with him kindly mentioning, "i like when you wear makeup", or "do your hair like this", just as if you said something like, "I like it when you dress better." It's not as much as what is said, it's how and when that makes it hurtful or not.
You dodged a bullet baby! Good for you for standing up for yourself, and dumping his shitty, shallow, selfish ass! Don't look back, and don't for one second think you made a mistake, because you certainly didn't make a mistake!
Oh my gosh.
OK just getting this out of the way, if we are going to give him as big of the benefit of the doubt as possible. OK well first off what he did with the make up was really insensitive. I was going to say, that may be what he needs to get off, and could have been misinterpreted. Like for example I find it hard to cum from a blowjob if the girl doesn't have her ass in my face. But its not because I think she's ugly. So maybe his dick needs the make up look.
But obviously its a very sensitive area, and that takes extreme care to get across without making her feel ugly. That takes a lot of explanation because it is your face, your body, and he should make you feel he loves it as is so you can trust what his kinks are.
OK and also, I once made a rude comment about my girlfriend from the past being really happy finding her cigarettes, and she replied saying something like I dont have to be with her if I don't like it. And this made me feel so crushed. And later she apologized. But I would erase this phrase for future relationships.
OK but all of this does not matter because he literally went out with someone the next day. You are 0% in the wrong. But actually are quite lucky it was so quickly revealed how undeserving he is of your love. Could have wasted much more time.
Your friends' knowledge is quite weird here, as friends tend to be with relationships. Once a guy/girl immediately goes for someone else, nothing else matters, its over.
Ive left relationships totally bitter but still waited months before pursuing other people.
You can always tell him "I like it when your dick is bigger, can you pump it up for me"? But true, your better off without him. Find someone who will like and love you as you are. If you happen to be VERY open minded you can double your option for finding a man. There are many, many males out there that have trouble finding a gf. They are straight, they are crossdressers. They also tend to understand and get along better with females. (Just sayin).