Is it morally right to date a guy when having lesbian thoughts?

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No you should figured out your sexuality before dating anyone 17
Yes, if your not sure its fine to expereiment 65
Its a grey area 15
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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    It's fine as long as you're not stringing a guy along in a really serious relationship. If things look like they might get serious, you should probably be honest with the guy about not being sure about your sexuality.

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago

    Yeah it's fine. If you aren't really sure about it you can do what you want! Even if you're 100% sure you are and you see a guy you like you can still date him. Live life without labels. If you like someone you like them!

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's no different than occasionally thinking about other guys. It would only be wrong if you cheated on your boyfriend. However, if you find yourself consumed with lesbian fantasies, you may want to try getting out of this relationship and dating a woman so that you won't have any lingering regrets about missed opportunities.

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  • Airstream3333
    11 years ago

    Its totally fine. If you two are at all serious, or if you think he is, its only fair to mention it to him. Doesnt have to be in some super heavy way, just in a hey, heres an interesting thing about me i thought youd wanna know kinda way.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Not at all. Dating is just trying different people on and seeing how they fit.

    Honestly even though it sucks to be broken up with, because of this people shouldn't take it to personally. There are 7 billion people in the world. So one of them wasn't "the one". I'm sure there's another one out there... XD

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    You choose your own morals. Right and wrong doesn't exist. You decide whether it's good or not. Do you feel like it's morally correct? If you feel uncomfortable about it, then don't do it. If not, then I suppose there is nothing wrong with it.

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    • bananaface
      11 years ago

      So it wouldn't be wrong for me to blow up Wales if I thought it was morally correct:O?!

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      • KeddersPrincess
        11 years ago

        Well, actually, to be frank, no. It wouldn't be. There is no right and wrong. There is only view points and what one might see as right and wrong. Now I could sit here and say that it is wrong, as it would be against my morals, however, to someone else, it may not be wrong. For example, in a tribe in Africa they rip out the hair of 10 year old girls to prepare them for motherhood. To me, that is wrong, but those are my morals. Is it really wrong? Because obviously to them it is not. It is based on the person who decides whether it is wrong or not. There is no right and wrong; only personal morals.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    Threesome! :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You can either have dick or pretend to have one like a dyke.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I don't think it's alright at all. Nothing against your confused sexuality -that's fine. But be single for a while, figure out what you wanna do and if you want a serious relationship with either guy or a girl -go for it. Don't come out of the closet on someone who might get hurt by this. And don't be a skank and cheat just because you're "confused".

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