Is it me to blame for partner not being sexual. with me

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My boyfriend wouldn't have sex with me for months at a time, he would watch porn,and or talk to these other girls from personal ads have them send naked photos of their self, younger then I, I'm26 he's 28 ,he says it's my fault, I have no self confidence, and low self esteem, that's was a turnoff, he was not sexually attracted to me, or physically, and that is why he had to turn to other women. Not sure what to think

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  • Jweezee
    9 years ago

    •adopts sassy black woman's persona*

    Look gurl, you need to find you a real man. I ain't about all dat pokin round with some other hos. Das his job to make you feel special not be all like you ain't shit. He need to build his gurl up not break her down. You let that mutha fucka know you ain't gonna have dat shit. Ders plenty dudes dat'll treat you good. Na mean? you tell his punk ass to man up and quit being a sorry ass bitch...tell him I said so.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If you believe this guy, well, you deserve him.
    He's an asshole and I can't for the life of me understand why you think he is your boy friend. He doesn't even like you, let alone respect you. Give him sex? Hah! I wouldn't give him my week old shit, if I were you.
    First and foremost you need to tell this creep, goodby. Next you should go find your self respect, because nobody, and I mean nobody, should be allowed to talk that way to you.

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  • VinnyB
    9 years ago

    I'm confused because you said boyfriend, but I think you meant occasional booty call.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    What do you want us to do about it? You picked the guy. Even if he didn't "seem that way", you sure do know he is "that way now" and you're still with him. So what exactly do you want us to do about it?

    You already have every reason under the sun to leave him that you not doing so already seems to indicate you're not going to leave him for this. Do you need us to confirm the obvious action you should take? Fine. Leave him.

    What do you want us to do about a man who is an asshole that you picked and know he treats you badly yet stay with him?

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  • Diver2
    8 years ago

    You don't deserve an asshole like this guy. I would love you forever and eat you and fuck you everyday. You are lovely and should get rid of this bastard as soon as possible.

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  • hokisgurl
    8 years ago

    Get the confidence to leave that jerk If you need help i left a guy not as bad as that you need to leave and get your stuff together emotionally and physically. I recommend being selfishly investing in you by not being in a relationship for a year or two. Then you could transition into a normal healthier relationship after you got yourself together

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