Is it just me or is this g spot bullshit

I agree with the olderdude. I don't have a vagina, so I can't speak from personal experience, but it does seem that women vary. Some do have a particularly sensitive area on the front wall of their vagina, some don't feel anything at all there and some are somewhere in the middle.

Your body is arranged the way it is. There's not a lot you can do about that, and if someone is shaming you because your body isn't arranged the way some website says it should be or in the exactly the same way as previous women they've had sex with, then that person is an ignorant asshat. Likewise, you shouldn't feel bad if you're not able to feel something that other women say they can, and nor should you assume that because you don't seem to have that sensitive spot, no other woman possibly can either.

Having said all that, I do wonder if the person (or people) who have attempted to locate and stimulate your G-spot have been a bit too forceful, and perhaps they've been prodding away when you haven't been sufficiently aroused. Perhaps if you've had an orgasm or two, you're in a setting where you're able to relax and the person you're with isn't pressuring you, and they start out gently and slowly exploring while you try to keep an open mind and focus on what you're feeling, it is possible you might discover that something is there afterall.

The concept of a "g" spot is subject to debate. Some woman clearly have one - and clearly in about the same area. Other woman seem to have one located some distance away; and some seem not to have one at all.

Having read a number of articles on this some years ago; my belief is that its very depending on individual physiology and nerve locations.

Sounds like you are normal - just don't have the theorized spot where some ladies have it.

Don't worry about it - and learn to find a partner who can treat you well and is not concerned about finding your "g" spot.