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...keeping it during masturbation? I'm just wondering because I can keep an erection when I'm masturbating but I haven't had sex yet so when I do I want to be prepared for any shortcomings incase I can't maintain it.
| Harder | 5 | |
| Nah | 3 | |
| Depends | 3 |
It can be harder in some cases, for example:
1.if you are stressed or nervous or focused on your performance during the interaction with a partner. If you are alone, you can be totally relaxed and focus just on your own pleasure, if you are with someone, your own thoughts or worries may be the enemy of your erections.
2.if you do things which are not so arousing to you just because you suppose your partner wants these activities. If you are alone, you do only things which you prefer, you are the master of your own time, speed, pressure etc...all these things can change if you interact with a partner.
3.if the partner interacts with you in ways which make you lose your erections.
However, you do not have to worry about it. All the above mentioned things are usually outweighed by the fact that you are with an attractive partner who is arousing to you and it feels much better when it is not solo but with someone else (unless they spoil the fun, of course:).
Last but not least, even if you lose your erection during the interaction, do not panic - just do something which is arousing to them and it does not require an erect penis, e.g. oral sex, manual stimulation of their genitals, kissing, touching etc... In case it happens, there is no need to stop, I would recommend to shift the focus to non-coital sexual activities.
During sex my cock is so hard that I honestly believe I could cut through glass with it.