Is it good to have one sided love?

I have a friend and I have feelings for her, but she doesn't, she is always my first priority but I don't think I am even last. It always hurts to be close with her. I try to move on but she always comes back as friend. I just can't end being friends with her and can't even say her that I have feelings for her.. I dunno what to do.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • RoseIsabella

    I don't think it's good for you.

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    • I dunno what to do..

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  • McBean

    Dude.

    1. You are friends with her. It's making you feel terrible.

    2.
    ----if (you continue to be friends) then
    -------You continue to feel terrible;
    ----else if (you stay away from her) then
    -------You still feel terrible but there is hope for recovery;
    ----end if.

    3. GoogleUp ("how to get over someone.");

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    • Nikclaire

      Worst pseudo code ever.

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      • McBean

        I know. Fucking Tomcat destroyed my indentation, capitalization, and even some of my semicolons. It looks terrible.

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        • Nikclaire

          Haha

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  • SKDM007

    its not healthy dude, i suggest moving on from her tbh, or be an overtly dickhead and she'll start being attracted to you

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  • brutus

    Confess ur love, if she declines distance yourself from her for a while.

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  • mauzi

    l0l get a job or something

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  • Do you have a basement and duct tape?

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    • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

      He wont get away with it tho

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Ive been down that road. You have to get over her. Its not gonna be easy but dont disgrace yourself by begging. Tell her you think shes really hot or something and then try to kiss her. If shes like nah then be like ok bye goodluck.

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  • BleedingPain

    Sometimes you just make do with the cards you've been dealt.

    I have a close friend that I was attracted to but he’s really gay. So instead, I treat him like my own child who’s to good for the world and help with relationship advice/ flirting cause he sucks at that.

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  • libertybell

    I hear you! I am going through the same thing right now. He's my one and only friend,and I am in love with him. I hope things get better for you.

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  • thepuppet

    Use the pain you feel and hold it as if it were a ball of vicious, raw, angry, pure energy.

    And use it well.

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  • Buy a boomerang, play with that, feel better

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