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i am black but not a dark black..fair....but black is black !!!
will i get difficulties to impress a girl..i mean that do girls have problem with the skin color?
Please stop thinking like this. The shade of your skin should be the last thing on your mind when thinking about impressing girls. What about impressing her with a stellar personality? Your passion in something specific?
There's nothing wrong with your skin color, but when it comes to attraction it really depends on the girl and her preferences in personality.
There really is nothing wrong with a persons skin color but that doesn't necessarily make black the most attractive skin color which is unequivocally white, not to mention white characteristics.
The OP got delt a shitty hand in life at least he's aware of it.
He's fine.
Sure he'll have to deal with racism here and there, along with learning how to handle racism properly, but other than that he should be fine if he just be himself, stay in school, and avoid becoming a stereotype.
As for attraction, I can't speak for all women, but my main reason for not dating black men for a while was due to that hood mentality. The sagging, glorifying drug dealers, gangs, and shit; the guys I met made it seem like because they're black this is what they must do. It drove me crazy. Ironically, I end up falling in love with a black guy who is his own person, smart, and more.
What about white people do they deal with racism and why should blacks avoid becoming a stereotype? Shouldn't everyone be themselves and who they are?
It just sounds like what your saying about blacks is kind of condescending that's why I ask.
Why are you trying so hard to start a debate with me? You're weird as fuck, but you're not stupid, so I'm sure you know what the topic of this thread is mainly about.
I've read the OP and he asked a question and it appeared to me you were speaking in a manner of condescension regarding him as the potentially stereotypical blackness and how your whiteness is superior and if said Whiteness is desired and to be achieved he cannot be himself around you.
That's what I'm trying to clearup sweetheart... Are you saying you want him to be an Uncle Tom?
Black is beautiful. I am a black mixed woman who loves my African roots the most and I take pride but its more than pride of being black. People outside our race try to say we understand "black pride" takes pride of our race pride but its more than pride of our culture and race. Most African American dont go dressing around in those head things and outfits unless they are Haitian or whatever. Unless your not black/ African American you wont truly understand. And if you find a girl who dont love you for you cut that bitch off, wether its a black female or any other race.
I know this my sound racist but so be it. Most White Americans like I'm gonna take a wild guess and say about 93% of whites do not have genuine caring relationships or even simple interactions with those considered nonequals (blacks, blacks, hispanics, blacks, blacks, blacks, aliens from outterspace, blacks, orientals, the Simpsons and blacks). Did I leave anything out?
Yes we just stick our cocks inside them with the exception of blacks that's bestial.
Niggers are subhuman especially the sub-Saharan race, there's no question. The best thing a black can do is to contaminate the white race by breeding out his blackness.
wtf of course it's fine, if a girl has a problem with your skin she's a racist bitch that you should dump in the trash.
Of course there's no problem with ones skin color! The people who actually care about others skin color are racist and don't think about this much, there are so many girls in this globe. One of them has been made for you by God!
if any one has a problem with skin colour, that bitch is not worth even acknowledging. You people worry so much. Love your skin!!
Your skin color doesn't matter, at least, it shouldn't. If it does matter to a girl, she's a basic b*tch. That's all I have to say.
I wonder how come many of us tend to envy what is different in others. I have always found so beautiful dark skin...And the fact that my skin is white, it doesnt make me beautiful..We are beautiful as a whole... Not many parts put together.
And, you know, a lot of people that are white-skinned like to get tanned, the darker the better...
If I can give an advice.. I think you should learn to love yourself. Everything in yourself. Starting with your beautiful skin colour..
Dude, or lady, if you're not a troll, ignore this poisonous website's advice. Being black, white, whatever. it doesn't matter. We are all human. This site is full of dickheads.
You're fine to be who you are. Im black too. And puerto rican. Just because some dummies say black is wack doesnt mean we are. In reality, black is where its at.
Black is beautiful and wonderful me. I myself am a halfbreed but I love my African roots the most and I take pride in it. Others outside our race try to say we understand "black pride" but its more than pride of our culture and race. Most African American dont go dressing around in those head things and outfits unless they are Haitian or whatever.It its way bigger than than that. Bigger than us. And unless you're a black person you truly understand. Amd if the person doesnt lije the tone of your skin you cam send them straight to hell with that bull shit. There is some one out there for everyone.
Yes I say the word nigga it means a friend and its not bad. Nigger on the other hand is a horrible word. Its like calling a Mexican a gula gula or a Caucasian a cracker. All insulting words like that need to be banned for lifetime.
This may sound rasict but so be it. Most White Americans, Im gonna take a wild guess and say about 94% of "whites" do not have genuine caring relationships or even simple interactions with people they consider as nonequal (blacks,blacks,blacks,blacks, blacks,hispanics,blacks,orientals,aliens from outterspace, blacks, the Simpsons', and blacks.) Did I leave anything out?
Nope. That's not normal. I've never seen a person whose skin wasn't white as snow. If i were you, i'd consider killing myself, but i'd be too disgusted by the color of my skin to touch myself do you probably wanna choose a method that does not involve physical contact with yourself. Try jumping off a building. That should help.