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| No, never. Just don't be with that person anymore if it's that bad | 427 | |
| Yes, and no one can judge | 45 | |
| Sometimes, if he/she's really that bad they brought it on themselves | 54 | |
| Depends, if we're married than no. If dating then not as big of deal. | 51 | |
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Look at this mindset:
"Its ok if she/he is a total bitch."
No. Fool. If they're such a bitch, break the fuck up.
ovs not, whats the point going with her if your just going to go and cheat on her.. people do have feelings not all just for your own pleasure
Never ever will it be okey! never but i can forgive one cheating just one and it must be a very very regetable cheat where he are at his knees crying his eyes out and begging to forgive him for his stupid mistake and then after same time i would forgive but never forget and also never bring it up again in the relationship if we were really working on it.
When you look at the statists, 50-60% of both men and women engage in some form of extramaritial affairs. This is not usually about sex but the need to feel motionally connected with someone, meeting a need that is suffering in a relationship. For many, it is a short lived situation and meets a purpose and in many cases strengthens the relationship in the long run. With the numbers being so high, it can't just be a question of right or wrong.
You cheat when your too scared or not brave enough to make a decision... its very risky and much easier to just choose but theres situations when ... for example a couple goes through an affair and they come out a lot stronger together.
People cheat for various reasons. In most cases it isn't okay. However there are situations when people stay together to do whats best for their children although they want to break up. In these cases I understand why they cheat. I'm not saying I think its okay but I understand. Any other reason than just break up and you dont need to cheat. If your dating than there isn't a lifetime commitment so its not really cheating.
We are all just smart animals...its in our nature to mate with more than one woman/man even if we are committed to one... As soon as people get past this we can get the maury show and jerry springer off the air...
Honestly, I would rather get broke up with. I Don't think Cheating is okay AT ALL, but i don't blame those guys thats house wife is a completely lazy, bad mom, no action in the bedroom, doesn't cook disgusto. I believe when you decide to be a housew wife we all HAVE to do this job! it's just right! If you don't, you really don't deserve your man! You can't blame him if he gets fed up with you but doesn't want to leave you for the kids. If you have done everything RIGHT and he cheats on you thats a completely differant story! Leave his ass! cut him for all i care! lol Just sex him as often as he wants it if your afraid he'll cheat. And men, try to not be a completely differant person with your wife after years pass. Treat her like you've only been married months, and please her in bed. Most people don't actually think through the conseqences of cheating before they do it, and that is just selfish. Don't cheat people, just don't, Go home and bang the shit out of your spouse. I know DAMN well I will never cheat, and I hope mine will do the same, other wise his ass is getting left faster than I could say, "Fuck you!"
dot_r_loser at least tried to reason this.
However, strictly psychologically we wouldn't do anything drunk/high that we wouldn't do sober. All alcohol does is release those *inhibitions*. It does *not* make us do things we'd refuse to do sober.
What if you were abused in a relationship? Is cheating okay then? What if you're being stopped from breaking up?
Of course "cheating" is OK. If I'm with A, and B comes along and is superior to A in every way, it is my MORAL DUTY to choose B over A. The ONLY people who have a problem with cheating are those who have been cheated on.
Using sex as a weapon is so low. I'd NEVER do it. Had it done to me plenty of times by gfs mainly. Women seem to think that whoring themselves around is a good way to 'get back' at someone. That if it doesn't cause the damage they want it to, it'll at least make them feel better. The "OH YEAH! Well I CHEATED ON YOU!" Bs lol. I completely check out when someone pulls that card, wether they are serious or not.
No. There are no exceptions or excuses to that. Whether you decide to cheat or not it's up to you, eventually. But it's never "ok".
No. not ok.
The other reasons are just excuses people use to justify their behavior, when they know they're doing something wrong
I wonder who it was that invented the notion of cheating.
People have been 'cheating' on each other long before the term was invented and before humanity was even aware of the boundaries between monogamy and non-monogamy.
I think the fact that cheating seems to be something invented speaks volumes about how there is actually no such thing; there's just stuff that a person would consider acceptable for a romantic/sexual partner to do.
I believe that if you say that 'cheating' is a bad thing, it means that you are effectively denying someone's biological instincts/needs to get away from a partner/try something their partner would not approve of/explore themselves/fulfil a need [Not necessarily a sexual one].
However, I think that a person who oversteps the acceptable boundaries of a partner of theirs time and time again should just not be with them at all.
its the cheaters fault don'y assume the they're cheating with knows they're in a relationship. So I had a boyfriend and I caught him with another girl, they were out to dinner and then he kissed her. I was so mad at him aswell as the girl. I thought she was a total bitch. Then I found out, she had no clue. She had been dating him for 4 months! I had been dating him for 6. So he had two girlfriends without us knowing and we were mad, and because of that. Now we are best friends :)
A strong relationship demands trust which demands honesty, so I think secret cheating is wrong, but some couple share their cheating with one another. For some, it helps them release steam, discover more about themselves, and create just enough tension that each person still puts in enough effort into the existing relationship to keep it fresh and interesting.
I don't know that I'd ever do that, but if someone says it works for them, I don't know that I'm in a position to judge.
Only on homework.
Anyone who would cheat on their boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife deserves to die a long, slow, excruciatingly painful death, forever alone >.<
I don't think that it is ever ok to cheat. If you are that unhappy that you want someone else then you should just end your relationship and be single until you find someone that you won't cheat on.
ive cheated... i regret it everyday of my life. he took me back & we had even a deeper connection bcuz it showed him, what he wasnt doing for me. i love him and it hurts me to know that i hurt him. this was just one scenerio and it might not work for other guys so dont try it!
No never I don't care what anyone else says, you shouldn't be with a person if your going to cheat. If youre a cheater you are selfish.
you're not married. and it's an honest mistake, like lets say you're drunk, or under the influence of drugs. and you tell your partner. I think it's ok, if it never happens again, and you doin't keep it a secret. Just be honest. And I think cheating can be worked out in a relationship. shit happens
Sometimes it just happens when you're drunk, real talk we've all been there. Premeditated cheating is different.
No.
We don't do anything drunk that we wouldn't do sober.
The only role that alcohol plays in acting a certain way is lowering your inhibitions via polluting your body and impeding normal brain function. Everyone, at some point, sober or not, will entertain the idea of punching someone in the face - even if they don't act on it. Alcohol only serves as a means to impair your judgment and allow you to act on your impulses without that annoying little thing called a "conscience" to tap you on the shoulder and remind you that what you're doing is questionable. The other part? We use alcohol as an excuse to act the way we normally want to even when society is looking and then being able to use the line, "Oh, I was drunk," giving anyone an easy way out of "socially unacceptable" behavior.
you are totally correct about the biological part, but that conscience is what makes us. acting on our impulses makes us no greater than animals. But when we use the mind that God gave us and not use depressants like alcohol we can make decisions, fully thinkign about consequences and be responsible for our actions.
No, we haven't "all" been there. cheating is cheating. being a drunk skank doesn't make it better. "Oups, I was drunk" is something a whore would say, sorry.