Is it crazy

So I meet this guy from the south a few years ago. I fell fast and hard for him. I had several warnings about him being a womanizer,liar, and thief. I took all into consideration including the fact that I am 7 years older than him. As it was, he had been nothing but nice to me from the time I meet him, until the end of my vacation. We spoke several times after I left, but it didn't take him long to tell me how he felt about me. I was hurt really bad in the past so it took me some time to feel positive about him leaving the south and moving to NYC with me. About two months later I became pregnant and everything was going fast,but it was good. Well until I started to find out things like he is a chronic liar! He told me he had to go back home because his sister was in a car wreck and got a pole through her chest. His sister is not only doing good, but she have no scares? Also most recently he said that he had to leave once again because his ex? was cutting herself and his mom has cancer of both lungs... They both are doing good as well,how I know? His ex? family! I know this is not normal, but the worst of it is to miss the birth of his baby and still not even call?

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  • dixie001

    Dump the dick :-)

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  • ms_funion

    I'm not really sure what you're asking ... but I think you already know the answer to your question.

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  • UsernameNotAvailable

    You got caught up in a relationship with a man who's cold. This is why you shouldn't move fast in a relationship. I don't know you but I'm disappointed in you. I hope from now on you make the right decision for you child and not do anything selfishly. You have a kid to think about now. You can be a great mom and father and just pray that this kid doesn't come out with emotional problems because trust me, thats the last thing you want to deal with. If the kid asks about the father you flat out give him/her the reason why you guys aren't together. But when the kid is older. Keep your kid away from a liar like him. It will mess him or her up badly and no matter what do not get back together with him no matter how sorry he says he is. Don't forgive him either because your condoning his behavior. Tell him to get help before he is allowed to enter any kind of relationship with you and your kid. This is all for the sake of your kid. You don't want your kid growing up and resenting you both. Trust me Ive been there with my parents. It took me the longest time to cope with the damage they left me and I still don't talk to them.

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  • Abandonedtwice

    I guess what I am asking is, Is this is a case of out of sight, out of mind? Or did I just got played and got caught up in a relationship with a man who is so cold not to even want to see his child?

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