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I am loving a girl. Now we decided to marry. So I asked is she have sex in past. She said that she had sex with 15-20 boys in his past life.
Can I marry her or break her relationship . Is it correct to marry a girl who have sex before marriage.?
I does not have sex in my past. My decision is based on your opinion. Please give.
| Yes.Marry | 17 | |
| No.Don't Marry | 2 |
First of all, I think your decision shouldn't be based on our opinions because marriage is something important and personal to you. It should matter a lot to both you and your girlfriend. Our opinions may help you to make the decision, but after all you are the one who is to make the final decision.
Before you make the decision, the question you should really ask yourself is: Do you love her?
There's no right or wrong in marrying a girl who have sex before marriage. It all depends on what you think. If you truly love her, you wouldn't mind what she did in the past. If you truly love her, it's her soul and mind that you love instead of her body. And if so, her loss of virginity shouldn't bother you too much.
However, if the fact that she's not a virgin really annoys you a lot, then you should reconsider whether you really love her/should marry her since you weight morality greater than her.
Finally, my opinion is that nowadays people are more open-minded and acceptant about sex. There're tons of girls who have sex before marriage. I'm not judging if this is right or wrong. I'm just saying that this is very common in this new generation. If you really love her for real, embrace her as who she is, including her past.
exactly what jen said!
The decision for or against marriage should be solely based on your mutual feelings for one another.
And if those feelings change or you see her for a different person simply because you know she was sexually active before meeting you, you should rather reevaluate your own feelings and values.
Nowadays, it's really no big deal, and she even was honest and opened up to you about this past, instead of "hiding" it or claiming it was only 1 or 2. I'd say marry her, but ultimately, you have to know if a randomly decided moral element that was not relevant long ago and stops being relevant in todays society again can ruin your life for you.
If you don't want to marry her because of that, you probably don't deserve her.
I won't marry, but if I did, I'd want to marry someone with less sexual experience than me.