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Long story short, after 8 months of being together found out that the Boyfriend had been having cyber sex with someone else online. Would you guys classify that as cheating??? IIN?
Is it or isn't it... It's a step toward extramarital physical contact. So whether you believe it is or is not cheating (I believe it is btw) it very well could lead to an affair.
My ex-wife cybered with her paramour before actually having an affair.
There is also the breach of trust. Someone who is sneaking a cyber-encounter, is betraying that trust.
I begged her on my knees to come back to me. Then she paraded him around town as "a friend of the family." Little did she know that he was telling everyone he met how he met her online several months before (when everyone knew we were still together).
Karma.
I would say it's cheating. A relationship isn't all about sex. Just cuz u haven't physically slept with someone doesn't mean u haven't cheated. It's about emotions too. Of course it depends on what's been said between the 2 people
Yes in my opinion it is cheating. Actually wondering if my boyfriend is doing the same thing..if you truly love someone and are committed, there is no room for this type of behavior. I would ask that he get counceling to deal with this so that your relationship xan be restored. If he isnt willing to do that, i would brake up with him. It takes 2 to make a relationship work. I can promise you if the situation was reversed and it was you cyber cheating, he wouldnt tolerate it at all.
So you have to ask yourself; would you have done that to him? Is your relationship the type where this would be considered okay and not a breach of trust?
Or is this a sign that he is not getting everything he needs from your relationship, and this is just the 1st step to the end of it all?
Talk to him. Evaluate your relationship. Think it over. Decide.
Yes it IS cheating no matter what everybody says. If you desiring another person and do something like that of course is cheating.
Yes!!!!! It is cheating!!!!!!! Please dump him!!! He is a gross loser!!!
Cheating,
Gawking at porn, not cheating.
But, since he is an active participant, dump him. Don't waste time with lengthy emotional evaluations and soul searching, what a bunch of crap.
Context is everything, but I wouldn't consider it cheating if it were a one-time thing and if he did it with a total stranger. So I probably wouldn't break up with him just for that one incident, BUT it does raise some red flags and I really think the two of you should talk about it, especially if it makes you uncomfortable.
It depends whether you are a man or a woman. Cheating means something different to each gender. To women, they're most upset by the emotional ties to someone else. That's why the first thing women want to know is if it meant something.
To men, we're more upset by sexual infidelity. The thought of our partner sleeping with someone else rips us apart. That's why the first thing we always want to know is whether you slept with him.
In your case, it kind of blurs the lines into both aspects and I would personally consider it cheating.
Yes it cheating. He's communicating with a real person online! That isn't fair to you.
depends how he had cyber sex. If you look at it in another way, he'd rather act out on these feelings over the internet rather doing the actual thing.
Like watching porn
People can turn any encounter into cheating. Flirting = cheating, talking = cheating, went to a strip club = cheating. Lighten up people.
It depends on how far away she/he lives how freaky the cybering got etc.
No its not cheating, its called masturbation. Maybe you should spice things up so he doesn't have to go to the interent. It's time for some people to get a grip, how is choking your own chicken cheating?