Is it better to be loved or feared?

Balance between the two.

Being respected by everyone is better than either of those.

Loved. I feel very uncomfortable when I can feel that a girl fears me such as late at night in a bus or dark alley and you can feel a girl is thinking what if he'll rape me or something...

Loved, being feared won't get you anywhere you'll end up alone. There's nothing worse than being unapproachable because you're feared. I'd much rather be respected than feared.

Loved.