Is it attractive for your girl to fight for you?
I think its easy to distinguish a crazy girl and a girl who is just fighting for her man. However, she might get mistaken for a crazy when all she was doing was showing how much she cares about him and their relationship. I think most guys don't find it as a turn on either way. Some do but its very rare. If I were a guy and my girl would always stand up for herself if there was another girl or anyone else getting in the way of our relationship, I would like it. As a girl though, I never felt jealous until I started dating this guy because I really like him and I'm taking it serious. I'm not crazy or jealous but when it comes to him and us, I can get possessive and over-protective but I'll hold back from verbally or maybe even physically standing up for myself cause I don't want him to see me as those crazy, insecure, jealous girls. But I don't want him to look at me as a pushover or weak or like it doesn't bother me. So is fighting for your relationship a turn off or turn on?
Turn on, she comes out as confident and can't be pushed around | 19 | |
Turn off, if she stays quiet she looks more confident | 9 |