Is it attractive for your girl to fight for you?

I think its easy to distinguish a crazy girl and a girl who is just fighting for her man. However, she might get mistaken for a crazy when all she was doing was showing how much she cares about him and their relationship. I think most guys don't find it as a turn on either way. Some do but its very rare. If I were a guy and my girl would always stand up for herself if there was another girl or anyone else getting in the way of our relationship, I would like it. As a girl though, I never felt jealous until I started dating this guy because I really like him and I'm taking it serious. I'm not crazy or jealous but when it comes to him and us, I can get possessive and over-protective but I'll hold back from verbally or maybe even physically standing up for myself cause I don't want him to see me as those crazy, insecure, jealous girls. But I don't want him to look at me as a pushover or weak or like it doesn't bother me. So is fighting for your relationship a turn off or turn on?

Turn on, she comes out as confident and can't be pushed around 19
Turn off, if she stays quiet she looks more confident 9
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  • thegypsysailor

    Jealousy is like riding a rocking horse; lots of action, but it doesn't get you anywhere.
    If you are that insecure, then you're going to lose this guy anyway. If he's into someone else, then there is no amount of fighting that will do you any good. Move on and choose better next time.

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  • Jay1

    Nonthing wrong with a Lil ova protection makes a person know how much you care .. I mean if you know that person cares about you or you care about that person, Make some noise and fuss about the sistuation

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  • AlphaQ

    If he loves you he would stick around. If not he will disappear.

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    • You mean if he loves you then he accepts whichever she is it doesn't matter?

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  • Nokiot9

    Like how mine got jealous that I didn't answer my phone, came over with they key I'd just given her at 1 am while I was sleeping, grabbed my cell and threw it off my 5th floor balcony onto the street below. Jealous much? Lol

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  • TimmyTheTurtle

    love them bad bitches.... love em

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