Is is normal to still love a guy who was a complete asshole to you?

It's time to move on.

You're not really in love with him. You're loving the memory of how it use to be, back when he was nicer to you.

And you're thinking to yourself that you won't find someone new - or that you don't deserve it.

Break all contact with him. Be alone. Take time to heal.

All you're doing right now is torturing yourself.

He broke up with me. But I love him so much even though he's done everything wrong. I really wish he would get back with me but at the same time I want him to go away forever. I should hate him bu he's the kind of guy that you just can hate. I want to be with him but yet I want to smash him in the face.

MOVE ON HUN!
my ex has turned into a dick and them he found this girlfriend that puts herself out.
if ya know what i mean.
but now, he texts me all the time saying how mch he likes me but hes still with his girlfriend, and is hiding his feelings for me..
?
i refuse to go back to him.

Would you want to build your future with someone like that? Normal in the sense that you think you love him but I think you are just afraid of making the initial step to end the relationship.

I think you are in love with the thought of being in love. Please move on. He is not boyfriend material. There will always be a piece of him in your heart, but make room for someone new. As I told my son once, you may love her, but that doesnt mean they are good for you.

I think if doesn't mAtter if he cheated in her or not she'd still take him back. She seems like the type that would take a guy back after he hit her and say that it's her fault! Sorry no sympathy from me. You have no self-respect if you are gonna let someone treat you like that and still wanna be with them. I bet he's doing this stuff cuz you continued to call him and tell him u miss him after you guys broke up right? You need to get some confidence. I know you're probably like 14 but this isn't the end of the world and u will get over it.

Why did you two break up? I can see if you did something wrong like cheat. He would be mad & act that way... but idk if you did anything wrong? Probably not.

He could be regreting the decision & acting like an ass. But he's taking it WAYYYY to far. You should never instinctively say Yes. He would need to REALLYYY work to get you back. For a long time. You should really try to Forget him though, if he hasn't made an effort to make things right yet.

And also I feel like a complete idiot because I know that if he asked me to get back with him I would instinctively say yes. I'm just so in love with him when I should want to kill him!! It's a fucked up feeling.

well i'm betting he feels worse and is trying to show you he's moved on even though he hasnt

Did he break up with you or did you break up with him?

Yer, find some one new and forget about him.

i can understand that you probably loved him a lot before, but why do you still love him if he's such a douche? he's not worthy of your time, thoughts, or efforts. you should just forget about him & move on.

Just forget him just better for your health!

Unfortunately it is normal, but only because there are so much girls who are exactly like you.

Chicks like being treated like shit!