Is is normal that my mom and i argue a lot?

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My mom and I get along most of the time. But when we argue it gets really heated. Like today I was in my room and she comes in and closes my blinds. I told her to leave them open cause my light isn't very bright. She told me that she wanted to keep the sun out... But I needed the light. So we started arguing and she started yelling at me and telling me that I need to respect her and that my friends were appalled in the way I "treated" my mom. So I said under my breath I hate you and she grounds me for a week and starts screaming at me telling me that it's too bad ( I told her I didn't mean it, which i didn't but said it with out thinking) she also told me that I should be ashamed of my self. I got really upset. Is this normal??

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    dont worry i argue with my mom mostly everyday. It doesnt mean you actually hate her when you said it. you just wanted a way to get back at her and you knew that would get to her. when i first told my mom , i immeadiatly fealt horrible, especially after that look in her face. but she knew i didnt mean it.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    It's normal. Why did she want to keep the sun out? If you were your room, you could've closed the door to prevent it from coming into the rest of the house.

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  • Royo102
    11 years ago

    I argue with my mom almost everyday not because I dont love her or we dont get along sometimes we just dont agree.. and we bicker back and forth of whos right and it turns into an argument

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago

    thats all my mother and i do argue.
    its how she communicates with me because she was abused my entire life by my dad
    my mother is also a cold heartless selfish bitch who uses people for money and her selfish own self
    fk i hate her!

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  • Caps90
    13 years ago

    Well you shouldn't tell your mom you hate her that was really wrong. Sometimes you gotta just think is this worth getting mad at? Just say ok and when she is gone open up the blinds again. That is the kind of thing I do when one of my parents get into that kind of mood!

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  • lol_bamf
    13 years ago

    Why would she want to keep the sun out?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You really should be ashamed.

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