Is is normal that i've never kissed and im 19 years almost 20 in 9mths

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Well I'm 19 but I've never been kissed it makes me feel inadequate that I haven't kissed a guy. All my other friends have, so its embarrassing..I just lie and say that I have and never had a serious or just like a fling. It feels like there is something wrong with me but, I know that there isn't.So what's wrong??? I've been told I'm cute ,but nothing, and I have a type and I personally feel that the guy should be sorta cute,but I am being picky or is there something behind it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If all of your friends ate their own feces except you, would you be embarrassed? To Hell with your friends.

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  • agoodlovejoy
    7 years ago

    God is preparing you for a great young man that is growing greatly with the hand of his parents right now.
    Dont let the enemy Satan fool you by surrounding you with a spirit of whordome. Dont walk into that path. It is not normal to be experiencing anything. Other than what God has for you.
    You are VERY young. Get in the gym and get to know your Angels and God be ready for the love that is holy in your life. You will want for nothing ever.

    Expect this in a few years. Could come sooner but make sure the enemy has never and has not sent you a counterfeit man into your life

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Dear I was so scared my first kiss was at 16.. WHAAAAT?? Haha
    Maybe u r secretly insecure? Ask urself that..
    Until then, go to a night club (:

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Thank you, DefinitelyNotNormal89 and dappled. I'm glad you both understand.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    I'm 19 and I'll be 20 next month! And I feel the same way as you. I've never had a serious make out with a guy. But it's mainly my fault, because I just want the right person to do it with. I feel like most of the guys who have asked me out, have been guys I wasn't that into.

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    • dappled
      13 years ago

      And I agree completely with DefinitelyNotNormal (who is giving some really good advice on this site recently).

      Why mess around with someone who isn't what you want? I'd sooner date a girl like you and the OP, who both appear to know what they want and have the confidence not to accept something less just for the sake of it.

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    • DefinitelyNotNormal89
      13 years ago

      I don't think that's a fault at all, I think it's a positive thing, good for you!

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  • FocoUS
    13 years ago

    Do you come off as unapproachable? I know that I've intimidated my last 3 boyfriends.

    I'm also worried that you might be looking for a fairy tale relationship. Which isn't bad it just doesn't mean your first relationship has be a fairy tale. My first relationship and kiss was not that great. Not because he was awful, I just didn't know how to react in a relationship.

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    That is not almost 20. You've barely experienced 19.

    I think you have high standards and you are looking for that fairy tale first kiss. There is nothing wrong with that, just don't let your expectations prevent you from having fun. It will happen when the moment is right.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    You're not being picky you just have standards, don't worry about it there's nothing wrong with that, the right guy will come along and sweep you off your feet!

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