Is is normal that i practically hate my family?

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I think I'm growing to hate my family. I don't have anything to talk about with my dad, and he doesn't know anything about me. He still treats me like I'm 7. My older sister is practically bipolar in the way she treats me. One day we're laughing our heads off, the next she's telling me "F*** you!" My mom constantly nags me about everything, and complains about everything in her life but never changes anything. I absolutely hate Mom's boyfriend, and she always complains about him, but he's at our house 24/7. The alienation from my family is partially my fault, because I tend to keep things to myself, but the way they treat me is just unbearable. Am I the only one who has this problem? Is there any way to get away from this?

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    My family has been broken, twisted, and so screwed up for years. I thought I would never get along with any of them.

    My dad was diagnosed with cancer in 07 so of course no matter what he did in the past, I took care of him and forgave him for everything. And my mom made a miraculous turn around a couple of years ago and is so loving and amazing now.

    Things can change with time. I hope your family comes together soonnnn.

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  • Sin_Alucard
    14 years ago

    You're not alone. My mother's side of the family has done more damage to me than any enemy I dealt with in my life. And I hate them to death. Damn control freaks!

    There may be hope for you. Family counciling would be useful. Or you can live with other family members.

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  • EGGYWHIFF
    12 years ago

    u aint alone douche bag, family you cant pick, your stuck with them.... sisters are bitchs , dads dont know you..mums dont get you ..

    get over it , shit happens , and it sucks

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  • TheNewMe
    13 years ago

    So not alone. Although when me and my mom and my dad are getting along, i love it! shutup,do not go there. I am wanting to move out (and in fact i am going to go live with my aunts when we move out of state,19 yrs with them is enough, i lived with my father and stepmom for a year). I love them both,but I think i just need to get out of their hair,plus it would be nice to get away and branch out. Me and mom had an awesome year that yr i lived with them,now that im thinking about it.So, I do not think u hate ur family,i think ur just sick of the bullshit. I think once u move and get ur own place and prove that u can take of urself, tat ull find that some of u have the best relationship. Sometimes its just being there all the time thats the problem.

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  • gnome
    14 years ago

    you know your not alone, my familys screwed up too much. cant even explain how much some of them have hurt me. just carry on being strong :) good luck X

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    oh, you are not alone kid. i think we all have dysfunctinal families.

    i think keeping to yourself, therefore, keeping problems between yourself and the others from happening is a wise thing.

    hold on, you will some day be able to get out on your own. best wishes:)

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  • emilyannx3
    14 years ago

    I know how this feels. My family is completely messed up. I'd go into detail but it's not even worth it...

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