Is is normal that i'm upset by my friend-with-benefits flirting?

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I have a friend with whom "benefits" have been reacently added.
We spend the night together almost every night, and we cuddle, kiss, and sometimes have sex. We hang out a lot outside of the home too. He doesn't want a relationship, so we haven't moved forward.
He has a LOT of female friends, and they flirt A LOT. They rub on him and stay the night at his place, and he smacks their butts and rubs on them also.
This upsets me! Should I be upset by this when we are only friends with benefits? Is this normal friend behavior between him and these girls?

Yes, normal to be upset; not normal that he flirts with others 4
Yes, normal to be upset; yes, normal friend behavior 9
No, not normal for you to be upset, but not normal friend behavior 3
No, not normal for you to be upset, but it is normal friend behavior 3
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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    It's normal even if you arent together, you still feel a certain claim over him, I understand

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    This friends with benefits relationship you've got going with this guy is bad for you.

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  • noid
    7 years ago

    They are probably all friends of his with benefits, too.

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago

    Wow. That's why they say friends with benefits never works. One person always catches feelings and gets jealous.

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