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I was talking to my friend and she told me she only has oral and anal sex with her boyfriends so she can stay a virgin until she gets married.
Is is normal for a girl to just have anal sex to stay a virgin?
I'm sure the man you finally marry will be relieved that you only took it in the ass.
I've heard this before, many times. Apparently it's VERY normal.
Back when I was young, the girls just did oral only to remain being a virgin. I had no idea that "anal was the new oral" until only recently. And oral is apparently the new "making out." I missed all the good life. >:(
I just hope she realizes that she can still get diseases orally, or anally so either way she should be safe. I think some people think that just giving oral or anal keeps them in the "virgin" category while ignoring that the risks are the same.
Sure, its a cool idea.
I have read that a lot of younger people are doing that these days.
If you have anal sex, you're not a virgin. Where do people come up with this shit?
Oral sex only and yeah, I'd say you're a virgin. Definitely not if you do anal. I think that anal is a step further than vaginal sex.
Coming from a catholic school it's perfectly normal, although I wouldn't recommend it for a few reasons.
Having anal sex too frequently is a negative because it loosens your anus and may result in anal leakage or fast bowl movements. If I had to put a number on it, I'd say once a week on a consistent basis is OK, but not much more than that. Say you have anal sex three times a week and some days more than once. After a period of a few months you may start to notice weakness in your anus in terms of going to the bathroom, holding in gas, etc, etc.
So keep in mind of the downsides. I knew of a few girls who did similar routine, one route I would suggest is one girl I know performed oral on her boyfriend about 3-4 times a week and had anal 2-3 times a month. All this including handjobs once in a while as well.
This should be sufficient.
That's completely false. Anal every day is perfectly fine if you do it correctly—it strengthens the muscles, rather than weakening them. Use lube, go slowly at first, and warm up. Don't do anything that hurts, and you can have anal as often as you want with no problems.
If I do anal and let me bf finish inside my mouth, will it give me bad beeath? I tried to google this but all it came was weird porn stuff.
The idea of virginity is silly, but being anal and oral only to avoid pregnancy is not uncommon.