Is is normal for a cross dresser male to not want sex from his girl?

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I have been with him for three years. He is a husband to me. The only thing is he don't like to have sex. He can go two weeks to a month and not want to. He like doing it by him self and I do not. A lot of times he take care of him self two or three times in a week, while I am waiting for him to be ready for me. I don't like doing that, but have to because of how long the wait is for me. I just want to cry. I wanted to just try and find some one to fill in, but can not do that. I love him and know that is wrong. He likes picture of just him and puts them on web, loves the web cam and using his phone for pictures. I don't know what he does with them all. He has a lot of girls pictures named local mlf and I hate that. He says the pictures are for me, but I never see them. He tell me he looks at so many women and CD, Trans because he wants to play like he is a women. I like the role play, just some times need my man too. He looks at trans and women's pictures to get off. I would like him to share him self with me more. I hate looking at guy picture to be the main part of my sex life to have sex by my self. He will not take pictures of me or help me when I am in need. I would be ok if he could help me a bit. And not act like touching me is gross. At night he don't like to touch and hates touching my boobs to sleep. I just don't know what to do about it. I want to be with him, but need sex too. It looks like with him that will never be some things for me. It is when he wants to touch me and on his time. I can not do or say or touch him until he want it.
I don't know if it is normal for cross dressing males to not be into their woman?

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Im a crossdressing male and I would love to have a gf to get it on with while we get freaky and she does what she wants with me if anything.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Sounds like he's turning gay...

    No straight guy should ever get into bed with you and not reach for your boobs. Boobs are so awesome that even a straight woman would be tempted to have a grab.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Well it sounded kinda bad at first, then it got worse and worse... He acts like it's gross to touch you? Doesn't even want to hold you in bed at night really? And the excuses he's giving you are paper thin too :/

    It sounds like you're putting all the effort into this relationship while he's barely faking it trying to get by.

    Whether or not you love him, now is the time to consider your own happiness. I'm sure you don't want to go the rest of your life having a semi intimate roomate in lieu of a relationship.

    There is nothing wrong with you moving on and finding your own happiness somewhere else.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you have a good friend. Just not a husband.

    It sounds like you need to have an honest conversation with him, asking what he wants out of your marriage.

    Cos it's not fair to you to keep you hanging on ... while he's trying to decide if he wants to be a man or a woman.

    You can't live your life being his beard.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    If he is refusing to have sex with you, have you considered the fact that he might not be attracted to the female sex at all?

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