Is his responses wrong?

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My bf and I go out to places.. and sometimes he wont post pics of us which i dont really care about. But when he posts a pic of him and his best friend, there is always that one friend that has a smart comment or has to give him crap like "oh wow they actually let you go out" and my boyfriend responds "what do u mean? I always go out"..."
Like what is my bf scared of by saying he's with me.. commitment? :/

My problem with this response is because I was at the event where the pic of him and his friend took place. I dont feel like im given my place, like he has something to prove to his friends rather than back me up and speak out for me (defend me). I know that there is not a right or wrong answer but how doesnt he see his boys are being complete jerks? I wish he would say something like, I was with my girl too and sound reassured so the guy can stop making those stupid comments.. then maybe his friend would be like oh damn. No respect. Instead I feel like hes scared to say hes with me. And im just the laughing stock

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  • perfectxsilence
    9 years ago

    Talk to him about him, he's your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel and if he cares about you, he'll listen and understand.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    No offense, but he sounds like a punk ass biatch to me.

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  • flowrider
    9 years ago

    I'm not sure he knows that you feel this way. I mean - it's not like he's going out with you and then saying he was doing something else, right? And his friends know your dating, right?

    It's a difficult thing to do in relationships, but honest to GOD, if he's important to you and he's hurting your feelings, talk to him about it. No relationship problem has EVER been fixed by talking about it on a message board and not to your partner. EVERY relationship problem in history has been fixed by both partners discussing it together and figuring out how to accommodate and compromise for each other.

    SRSLY. Talk to him. If he's worth anything at all, and if the two of you care about each other, you'll figure it out together. If he reacts badly to your honest communication about your feelings - honey - he ain't worth the time and energy you expended to type up the above post.

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  • My02cents
    9 years ago

    Your boyfriends acts like a jackass.
    Get one who is not ashamed to show you off and who is willing to treat you with respect.

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