Is he waiting for me to text him first?

My bf once said he is not going to chase me even if he misses me. He says "of course I'll miss you but I'm not gonna like go and beg for you. I don't like that." So I'm guessin he is waiting for me to contact him first after a few days of not talking since we fought over the phone. Actually, right after we fought, a few hrs went by and I thought I wasn't gonna talk to him til the next day but he actually shockingly sent me something later that night and I replied. So the next day, of course, there was still awkward tension but I thought since he did text me last night after our fight, we will talk today. I really had nothing to say to him and apparently he didn't either. We didn't talk the whole day. I thought okay thats fine but now its like the fourth day and I'm starting to analyze of course and see whats the problem. Is he waiting for me since he already sent me something after we fought and plus he says he's not gonna run after me? Worst case is he is slowly moving on and doesn't care. That's the thing I hate about him most is that he can care about something so much but if it makes him look bad in any way, in this case vulnerable or weak, then he's not gonna do something about it and he'll just let it be.
So is he waiting for me to text him?

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Comments ( 8 )
  • thegypsysailor

    He's an immature dick head, playing ego games. Ditch this dick before you become attached.

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    • The first part you said is spot on but the sec part, idk if that's whats gonna happen. It's too late, I'm in love with this dickhead.

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  • DingDongCabong

    Girl Im preeetty sure he still likes you and was just waiting for you to message him. If he said he wouldnt run after you BUT he actually did text you twice, it means you are important for him!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Maybe he thinks its all your fault and waiting for you to apologise.

    Sounds like a douche.

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    • Thats the exact case. But he texted me first! But basically saying he misses me even though I put him through a lot of shit. That's his way of saying "please come back" without risking his ego.

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      • Terence_the_viking

        people should say what they feel there's enough censorship in the world.

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  • Arm0se

    Maybe he doesn't want to annoy you, and wants you to talk to you when YOUR ready.

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    • Well he actually contacted me first right now telling me he misses me but we go thru hard times and he'll say forget it. I mean he basically said what I was gonna tell him.

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