Is he sincere?

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So, here we go.. I've been on and off with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. We've known each other for at least 7. The first time we went out he split, no reason giving. The second time we went out he cheated on me. And now the third time, he says he's changed. That he was an idiot before, and now he knows what he wants, and it's me. He tells me that people make mistakes and he wants to make it up to me. He talks about having kids together, getting married, and he wants to move out with me.. next month. Do you think he is being sincere? Is it normal to have doubts? Feedback would be awesome, thanks!

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Based on 25 votes (11 yes)
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  • casadilla17
    13 years ago

    Do not get back together with him. Quite frankly, my concern here is with you. First, you HAVE to break up with him. This on-and-off stuff and the cheating will not work. My question for you is whether or not you are frequently attracted to losers like this. If you are and you have trouble breaking up with them, either A: you need to start going for the guys that seem less attractive (you will find that these guys turn out to be losers less often) or, if that doesn't work, B: you may suffer from something called "Love Addiction". If so, there is nothing wrong with you, nor is it your fault, but there are many books out there about it, and if you feel you suffer from it, I would encourage you to get help. It may not be easy, but this is for YOU. Hope this answered your question, and good luck!

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  • sweetpea92
    13 years ago

    Okay, so I voted yes to your question if whether or not it's normal to have doubts. Of course it's perfectly normal. Now for some advice... I know people say forget the past and live for now because with it comes the future. Right? Well, before you do that. Ponder your time think about everything that's happened between you two. Will you be able to forgive him? Will you be able to trust him? Will you be able to not question where he is etc. at all times of the day. I know you've been together with this guy for 3 years but the cheating thing will definitely cause problems if you guys move in together. If you want to stay together, go for it. It's your choice. However, I advise you not to move in less you guys want to be at each others neck 24/7 about what he's been doing etc etc. If you're not that type of person and you really do trust him again then it's all you :) I just don't want anyone getting hurt again as all. Live happy, be happy. Take advantage of what you have and can have... Appreciate it

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  • loyalroyal08
    13 years ago

    its normal to have doubts, it could change your entire life. there isnt any way of knowing he is sincere, its just down to if you want to take the risk

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    I'm in the same exact situation... And I don't know whether to believe him or not.

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  • jayrod105
    13 years ago

    I think he may be serious. People make mistakes but you have to trust him completely or it wont work.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    no, it's because it's nice to have a second opinion sometimes.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      yeah but this isnt a site for second opinions or advice its a site to find out if what you are doing or going through is normal and relationships are normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ugh another relationship story sometimes i wonder if people on this site actualy submit stories they dont know is normal or just want somewhere to bitch about their normal relationships.
    -rolls eyes-

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    get him to prove hes changed, a probationary period or something

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