Is he into me?

Hello!

So I recently tried "online dating". I must admit that I was against it at first but my roommate convinced me. Anyhow, I started talking to this cute guy who's 4 years older than me and a recent college graduate. We had so much in common, it was crazy. By "so much in common" I mean everything basically, except for the fact that he's a boy and well, I'm a girl. We both enjoy volunteering (both of us have volunteered abroad), travelling, the same kind of music and movies. We also both are close to our family and have similar hobbies. So we continued talking for a while and then exchanged phone numbers. We kept on saying how we should go on a date soon. But it never happened.

I had to leave to go abroad so we didn't talk for a while. During that time, I realized that he blocked me off Facebook (for no apparent reason since in our last chat he said he wanted to meet me). So I texted him when I got back and we were talking about going on a date (for the thousand time). We didn't plan anything but told each other that we would get back to each other on the day of the date (which was the next day). So I texted him to next day and never got any reply. It's been two days now.

I don't get it. I always get the vibe that he wants to go on a date with me since he initiates most conversations and he's the one bringing up the ideas of dates but he didn't reply when the time came and the Facebook thing got me wondering.

Thanks for your help!

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Comments ( 5 )
  • EdgeFencer

    This guy really wants to play you if he's just going to block you off Facebook for no apparent reason. You should just end this game before it gets out of hand. It's not worth it.

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  • idgafmilkshake

    Maybe he is actually like 20 years older than you. You should watch the show CATFISH

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  • ccjigsaw

    He sounds like a phony to me, leave this situation and try again.

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  • Elmanta

    I believe what most people would say is no he's not into you but , you dont know what he's going through right now maybe he's scared maybe he had some problem on that day maybe there was something stronger than both of you prevented him from calling back or texting and stuff but for the FB part maybe there is someone else but you dont really know neither do i so try confronting him about everything

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  • kittykat9930

    Sounds like he's not who he says he is and is just trying to lead you on. Either that or he's just scared to meet you but the Facebook part gets me suspicious. If he really liked you, he wouldn't block you out of the blue like that. You should confront him and say that if he doesn't meet up with you soon then you're going to find someone else who will. Don't put up with someone who isn't making the effort to see you, you deserve better!

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