Is he in love with me?

if you guys are still together after 2 years then hes not just trying to get some. so wait till then.

Girl, he's exceptionally patient, but he's just trying to get in your pants and once he gets there, you're history!

IT'S HER FIRST TIME FOR FUCKS SAKE!!! She can be a 'cock tease' or 'prude' all she wants!!! Sex is NOT everything! And I would wait longer than 8 months! (I'm still a virgin thank you vary much!) My ex only got as far as makeout and boobage! I had this exact problem, I couldn't tell if he was just using me either, and i was afraid. He had been with other women and was 2 years older than me so I DID NOT want to feel like that young piece of ass he had been with, and I was vary.. I was VARY attached to him! He was my best friend for 4 months and for the 5th month my BF. But i had to move to a differant state. We texted eachother everyday for long amounts of time, until he stopped texting me as much, less and less, now we don't text at all. I found out he had got a girlfriend in the short time i moved over here. So as much as i was attached and still kinda am, (Don't blame me, he was my first kiss lol) I realize i wasn't as special to him as i thought. So i'm kinda GLAD things never got TOO serious. Just wait it out honey, you can tell when a man is deeply in love, don't give it away so easily because what we have (our virginitys) are valuable and millions of women all wish they hadn't gave it up as easily as they did. :D sorry if that sounded like a lecture.. How old are you anyways?

How old are you?! Eight months with just making out? Poor boy probably has to power jerk it all the time. Be kind to him. If he's using you for sex, you should know by the eight month point.

You are exceptionally mature to be asking if he is just trying to get into your pants, and you may be right. Eight months of dating may seem like a long time to you, but men have waited longer, and even married women, just to get into their pants.

In the olden days, when a girl refused sex, it was called "holding out for a wedding ring." Now, society frowns on that, but you should NEVER have sex until you are ready, or allow a boy to pressure you into doing ANYTHING that makes you uncomfortable. It is also perfectly normal that you are apprehensive about your first time. All girls are whether they admit it or not.

It's also true that boys tell their buddies "how far" they got on dates, just like girls tell their friends everything. Unfortunately, once the boy gets into the girl's pants, he often loses interest. So don't "give in" to this boy just to please him--or keep him--because, in the long run, he won't love you for it and you will probably end up feeling like a fool.

Depends on the guy and his inner feelings. No one can answer that he loves you other than him.

As far as being scared of sex. It's normal and healthy. With all the diseases floating around and not knowing who has what, it's very normal to be afraid if you value your life.

Just wait until you are ready. Try not to bulk under the pressure of him wanting sex. He's gonna want it until he can't get it up any longer and maybe even after that, so it's really how you feel that counts. He'll always be ready. But you won't be. You don't want to regret your first time, or begin to feel angry with him for pressuring you if you really like him and want the relationship to last. You'll have to live with those feeling for the remainder of your life. He doesn't.

Good luck finding your way. Stay strong to your values.

Yeah wait, dnt let him to have sex vid u

if you are still afraid of sex, then now is not the time.

we can't tell you if he really loves you or not. how could we know?

it should happen when you want it to happen. if he leaves you over this, then you have your answer.

first of all 8 mon no nothing the man loves you. he seriously wouldnt spend 8 months trying to get into a hot girls pants. and the question in the very beggining is a 50/50.

no oral sex at least? If you make sex with him he will love you for sure.