Is he gone?

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Ok there's this guy who I've known since i was 13. When we were both 14 we finally admitted our love. He lives on the other side of the country. We've had a really hard relationship. Long distance, not being able to read each other etc. I don't want to be mean, but I'm kinda outta his league, but I love him VERY much. We click, I feel it. My brothers know him as well. I was banned from talking to him a couple months ago, but fuck that. So he abandoned me for the longest time, twice. And so recently he came back saying how sorry he was and he wanted me to be his again....and then he preposed to me. I didn't say yes. Now there's this other girl.....who has the same name as me. And well let's just say he didn't use his words correctly and I blew up. Now he's not answering my texts and im afraid he's hanging with her. What should I do?? :'(

You should let him go 41
Its your fault 6
Its his fault 4
Kill that chic 13
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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago | pl

    You're not ready to be married until you can spell 'proposed' correctly.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    It sounds like there are too many problems in the relationship. He's far away. He has another girl he likes. Your family doesn't like him. You feel like you're out of his league. You don't know how to read each other. He abandoned you (twice).

    Why would you stay with someone when there are so many problems in the relationship?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hes not worth it. He's out of your league! How old are you? 14? your Still young, you'll meet way better guys as you get older he's not a keeper. Move on and find someone worth your while.

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    • Sumwherearoundchic
      12 years ago

      No I'm not 14

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Well either way moving on is the best choice.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    It's not your fault. It just looks like you guys aren't meant to be. Time to move on.

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  • Dot123
    12 years ago

    Just get over it bitch! Move the fuck along!

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  • UnrecognizableMan
    12 years ago

    Put in some real effort and make it work. Nothing worth having comes easy.

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  • posterboy
    12 years ago

    Dump him your wasting your time on him so move on. Find someone you can see and feel.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    Did you mean "reach each other".

    There seems to be too many problems with this relationship. This relationship is highly dysfunctional. He ignores you for long periods of a time, there's another girl involved, but with you "same name". So, is he confused about which is who? Also, you have very low self-esteem and he seems to be feeding off of this. I think it would be best to break up with him and move on. To attempt to stay in this dying union would be pure toxicity.

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  • lufa
    12 years ago

    I've had a long-distance relationship and we were both madly in love with each other. However it was too difficult to meet and be together. Eventually we had to break it off. I decided after I'll never do that again, unless one person was willing to move to the other person's city.

    If he is out of your league, then you can definitely do better. You're in love with the familiar-there are other great guys out there too.

    Every gf I had I thought was the best and I couldn't find someone better yet I always did. Now that I'm older though, it's harder to find great girls, but I still have hope I will find ms right.

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