Is he gay and if so does he love me?

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Ok so. I am an 18yo guy and I'm bi. I have discovered this a few months ago as I developed a huge crush on one of my close friends who is 19 and also a guy. He does have a crush on this girl who he is friends with and says he is straight (he knows I am bi). So I thought my crush was hopeless and enjoyed the close bond we do have (we are cuddle buddies). However, the last time we got drunk together the cuddles escalated and we made out (and did other sexual stuff but we didn't actually fuck) for over an hour. Now I'm wondering if he loves me back or if he was just drunk. He said after that he did enjoy it and did not regret it but he blames it on the alcohol. Is it normal for straight guys to do this with their friends? Do any straight people on here do this when they are drunk?

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  • TonyLasagnaFromTheNeighborhood
    5 years ago

    Speaking from experience, and having worked at several bars across Jersey. I can assure you that no true straight fella would deliberately make out with another guy. No matter how hammered, drunk, or stoned they are. Your friend either swings both ways like you do, or he's secretly a full-on backwards mechanic. One thing's for sure. Your friend ain't Italian. Or at least, not from MY neighborhood.

    Now, funny enough, "Nickvey" over here has some truth among some guys. They dig the sex, but not the guy. Which in their own twisted minds, saves them from being an actual homosexual. It's what these mutants call, "Prison Logic".

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Haha thanks man. Yeah that's what I've been told. Being drunk doesn't change your personality and sexual orientation. Even if he says he's "gay when he's drunk".

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      If I've said it once I'll say it a thousand times, your name is awesome!

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      • TonyLasagnaFromTheNeighborhood
        5 years ago

        Haha! Nice to see ya again Rose!

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    • HellsAngel88
      5 years ago

      Hey Mr Lasagna I'm a full time backwards mechanic what are you trying to say??

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    when i was little i loved to have gay sex. now you are saying men love each other? no fucking way. I loved a cock in my ass, i dont love the dude with the cock.

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    • SweetTouch
      5 years ago

      I also want a cock in ma ass! Its very, very worth it if I get it!

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago

        Are you gay?

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        • SweetTouch
          5 years ago

          Almost..... 50/50. Sometimes I'm gay and sometimes I'm a very normal person that love girls like others.....

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            5 years ago

            Sounds like you're bi :) Also don't ever make the fact that you like guys make you think you aren't normal, it's perfectly normal not to be straight all the time.

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            • HellsAngel88
              5 years ago

              That's like my buddy we would be driving and I'd be giving directions and I'd be like "Your going straight right??? He'd say "f*** no!"

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Good point

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  • ChurchHotel
    5 years ago

    Mate if you guys are "cuddle buddies" he is Def at least bi. Most guys don't admit it but we (humans) are all alittle bi. Ask him how he feels about you. But reassure him you want to stay friends and don't want to jeopardise the relationship.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Thanks. Yeah I was gonna tell him at some point when we're alone together.

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  • NA
    5 years ago

    I'd say.

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  • HellsAngel88
    5 years ago

    I like fat bitches does that make me gay???

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Are the "fat bitches" the same gender as you? if you replied yes to this question, that does make you gay. If you replied no to this question, that makes you straight. If you reply sometimes yes sometimes no, that makes you bi.

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