Is he gay?

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Okay so I have had feelings for my best friend for quite some time now, and it's not just a dumb crush, I actualy love him and can't stop thinking about him...

A year ago we got drunk and had oral sex. ( I performed it on him, and kept asking him if I should continue, and he said yes and made jokes while it was happening.

A year before that he asked me if I would ever become bi, and I told him I dont know, maybe? and he just kept quiet.

When we talk he always looks me deeply in the eyes, and I love it when he does that.

Anyway, our friendship continued to grow and a while ago I found gay porn stored on a flash disk in his room, also, I was browsing the web with his pc and found quite a few links related to gay porn in his history. There was a link to a question that he asked about how to get a gay boyfriend and stuff like that.

I Came out to him shortly after discovering the porn (he doesnt know that I found it) and he told me that it was fine and I shouldt worry.

I was kinda expecting that he would tell me that he felt the same, but he didnt.

So do you think he is gay?

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  • loading123
    14 years ago

    You have to talk to him yourself. That's the only way to find out, but it does look like he's gay.

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  • leahquestions
    14 years ago

    yes is your answer. you should ask him and make sure he looks you in the eye and doesn't avert the direct question. make sure you tell him you're his friend first before you go there and tell him why you ask, because you have feelings for him. many gay men are married by the way ... do you want to end up like that?

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  • Outsider21
    9 years ago

    Ditch the guy. He's obviously gay and probably cheating on you with other guys. The porn could have simply been experimentation. However, the link on "How to get a gay boyfriend" is a giveaway.

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  • BlueLightGay
    14 years ago

    Guys come to grips with their own homosexuality in various ways, and at various times. Just because you came out, doesn't mean he should, can, or is ready to yet.

    But almost every gay guy has a heartache story about loving a mate, even having sex with them, but their mate is ultimately more straight than gay, and thus cannot reciprocate the love and connection you seek. Who knows in this case?

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