Is he cheating on me?

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so i met this really nice guy off this dating website. we get along so well and he says he is very serious about me. we have been together for a month now. and the other day i remembered i still have my dating profile and i went on the computer to delete it. i saw that he still had his and he was online so i sent him a message saying hey babe lets both delete our accounts because we met each other and there is no point in having one now. he wrote me back saying so whats up? he completly ignored what i wrote him so i deleted my profile i was so mad. i didnt text him goodnight or the next day. Hey sent me a text in the afternoon saying hey whats up why are you not texting me back i told him i had a problem with him having his profile still. he said the only reason why he still has it is because he talks to old friends from the marines. his response seemed really fishy to me and i told him that all he said was i am loyal to you and he isnt talking to any other girls. I dont understand why he wants to keep his profile if he is in a relationship with me. I just feel like he isnt telling me the truth. is this normal? is he cheating on me?

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    One month it's a bit too early to judge of the seriousness of the realtionship. Aren't you too demanding?

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  • Abby13
    11 years ago

    He might not be so confident in you yet. One month isn't too long of a time to know someone.
    Just in case the person he met and likes is lying to him and he needs to meet someone else.

    Obviously you really like him, and are who you are around him, he'll gain confidence in you in no time at all.

    If he really is using it just for his buddies, then accusing him of cheating is probably not the most flattering thing you can do. Tread softly

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    It's way to early in the relationship to be demanding! Good luck with your choices

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  • KingOfNowhere
    11 years ago

    He is cheating on you with me....and I'm a dude.

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    It's fishy. The marine corps don't really socialize on the dating sites. Well, they might, but then he wouldn't be that much into you.

    So I'm not sure he's "cheating", but he's deff. keeps his options open. And the active profile might lure some other potential candidates. Can't blame him, though. If someone were to get "serious" with me after just a month I'd be sketched out as fuck too.

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  • nightmare28
    11 years ago

    You claim that you only known each other for a month yet its a serious relationship, is there any chance that you're forcing yourself on him? A serious relationship can be after 6 months perhaps, when you really know each other, not just the infatuation, hot sex and playing games by ignoring phone messages. He might not have decided if its serious or not yet, maybe he wants to keep his options, maybe he wants to see how this relationship going before taking farther steps. In all honesty though if he wanted to cheat and had any common sense, he would have a profile that you would have no idea about whatsoever, so unless he gave you reasons to doubt him you shouldn't jump to gun, and if that stage there are already trust issues and such problems, perhaps you two rushed into this too fast, or perhaps you're not on the same level.

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    my douche bag cheating 'friend' gave the same type of bullshit excuse when his amazing girlfriend saw that he still goes on a social site for hooking up with people, "oh i keep up with my friends and family on it". bullshit, that's what facebook is for, not a website specifically for finding people to hook up and flirt with.

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  • BluntsRolled
    11 years ago

    > Ben together for a month.
    > Already commanding him to do your bidding.

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  • Asiana
    11 years ago

    It's very easy to meet people online so guys can cheat really easy. I wouldn't say a relationship can be built in one month with an online guy.

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  • moomus
    11 years ago

    Rely on your gut instinct. That's what it's there for.

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