Is he cheating on me?

I dont understand what you mean by the 'they broke up' comment. Have you guys had sex? Did he tell you he loved you before you started dating? Does he tell you he loves you just so you will have sex with him? What is the age difference between you guys? These questions will also help me get a better handle on the situation. I think he is being sneaky, my boyfriend will let me see his phone anytime i want to, especially if i am feeling insecure, and we have been dating over a year. There is a possibility that he is cheating on you. I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

''Before we started going out he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend and she wasnt over him so he was going to get back with her but then she didnt want to so he stayed with me''

''I dont think hes the type to cheat on me''

Seriously?

yeah he is still seeing his ex.

Long story short, I think your entire story is quite normal. Exceedingly normal, even, if depressing and unfortunate.

Done with the short story, onto the long one, if you're in the mood:

Try your best to look at your situation from the outside. If your friend sent this story to you, would you honestly tell her that there isn't a problem?

If it helps any, just imagine how many people the average married woman has dated before finding "the one." Is it hard to believe that she repeatedly fell deeply in love (in much the same way as you have) with many men before finally settling on one? Do you think she went into all of those serious relationships thinking anything -but-, "I truly love this man."

There's a reason you always hear the "we're going to be together forever" line in movies and books and things. At some point you just have to accept the fact that not nearly every serious relationship ends in a happy marriage, despite the sincerest of intentions. Not even the majority of every serious relationship. Shit happens, and you often just have to deal with it.

It might be very hard, but leave him.

leave him. He is hiding something from you and he is probably talking to his x anyways.

he wants to get back with her so badly that he has to hide it from you. NOT COOL.He needs to be honest with you and just break up if he is playing childish games with you.

that is ricidulous. a grown man grabbing his phone away from his gf. If there is nothing to hide he would let you see his phone regardless of how short or long you have been together.
My bf and I have been together for 3 weeks now, and he lets me see and use his phone anytime. I also let him see my phone and other things as well. If he isn't oepn to you about everything than he isn't worth your time and energy.

You need your reality checked!!
Just for a moment...Think with your mind, not with your heart.

Love is blind and sometimes we can't see things as they really are.

His behavior isn't normal, you know this, otherwise you wouldnt be seeking for advis.

These are definitely bad signs... He is cheating, I'm sorry. Especially if you SAW him flirting with other girls... I mean obviously if he's pointing the affection he used to give to you at other girls now he's no longer worth your time and doesn't care about you. Dump the bastard! Trust me, you'll find someone better.

Eh, it's only been 2 months. I'd just leave him. Trust issues is a bad sign that you may never get over. Why prolong this?

I'm afraid that I agree that he's cheating. It's as if someone has hurt him so he's not going to allow it again - by not being exclusive and not getting in too deep with you.

Don't be too available, make him work for you a bit!

sounds like some dumb shit i have done to my gf when i was drunk,i began when i felt she was un faithful i always tell her what i did and i can only ask the same of her. Just make him jealous or leave him,they do it once they will again.

I hope so, you're illiterate.

Punctuation.

Everything else is meaningless.

-Pantz