Is he cheating?

Is it normal if my bf is ok with having their roommates have sex in their dorm while hes there? I've never heard of anyone thinking that's normal..usually people would go to a different room. But he says he doesnt care

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40% Normal
Based on 15 votes (6 yes)
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  • SwickDinging

    I did occassionally get in similar situations like this in college, only 3 times, and once I didnt give a shit and put my headphones in, once I passed out drunk before they'd even finished, and on another occasion it eventually turned into a 4way including me.

    His behaviour isn't normal, but it is possible that he genuinely doesn't care and isn't joining in or enjoying it. Some college kids are just really overfamiliar with their dorm mates and don't have proper boundaries. It's really hard to say without knowing him and his roomie. You're not weird to think that this is weird though, I'd be questioning this too.

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  • TS

    Totally not normal, but unless he's sitting there jerking off to it I don't see how it's cheating. Seems like he's just too much of a push-over to stick up for himself, and his roommates are shameless animals

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  • LornaMae

    How is that cheating?

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  • Not normal. That's wierd

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    • nikkiclaire

      Never went to college huh?? It's normal in college. That's why I switched to online schools.

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      • I went to college for a while. Nothing like this happened. If someone started having sex in the same room as me I would be very offended. Even in college

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        • AaaaaashtonKush

          Same here. Been going for 3 years now. Usually people would wait until they have the room to themselves.

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          • nikkiclaire

            Ok all you ivy leaguers 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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  • trexagireve

    It is normal if he is holding the camera

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  • RoseIsabella

    Lots of weird shit happens in the dorms.

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    • McBean

      Hahaha. Like mixed gender shower hour (couples only). I'm a bit too old for that one needless to say. What weird shit do you know about?

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      • RoseIsabella

        My suite mate snuck a kitten into the dorms, but my roommate, and I didn't snitch, because cats are awesome!

        Yeah, I don't care about that sexual stuff you were talking about. I honestly hate it when you talk to me like that, but for whatever reason you choose to continue. Continuing to talk about quasi sexual stuff to me when I tell you that I don't want to talk like that with you shows a lack of respect for me!

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        • leggs91200

          I been wondering - are you the "crazy cat lady" people talk about? Not like THE crazy cat lady but maybe one of them?

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          • RoseIsabella

            Maybe one of them, I dunno. I just really love my cat, he's a cool dude. I feel like he's extra special, because he's Siamese. I love most cats, but I think I'm definitely a more of a Siamese cat person than a cat person. Anyway, I'm bipetual; I love both cats, and dogs. I'm pretty sure my cat is smarter than a lot of dogs. I once babysat a beagle, and OMG my Siamese was so much smarter and more obedient than her.

            Yeah, I just might be the cat lady, but I'm really more a Siamese cat lady.

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        • McBean

          Well okay. I do not think it is quasi-sexual, but you do. Your boundaries are not clear to me. You have overstepped my boundaries on a couple of occasions with different issues because you don't get it.

          Sorry.

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          • RoseIsabella

            I honestly don't see how anyone could not see, "Like mixed gender shower hour (couples only)", as not being a comment of a sexual nature.

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  • IrishPotato

    Not normal. He probably likes it.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Normal

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