Is he catching on feelings?

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Okay I am definitely not a slut but every now and then I hook up with a guy, no sex happens just a lot of making out a bj or hj and usually ends in him eating me out, now he's starting to try and hang out a lot more and recently asked me out on a date, he is getting feelings for me isn't he?
I mean I don't mind I guess we could give it a go but like I'm more into girls so I don't know if I can handle having a boyfriend. I don't know if this makes sense or I soud stupid but yeah, any advice??

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  • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#P6
    7 years ago

    Any BITCH that starts her OP off with "Okay I am definitely not a slut" you know god damn well she's one.

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    • lenzo
      7 years ago

      He kinda has a point haha ;)

      there's no need to mention it :D

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    • Troubled.child
      7 years ago

      Thanks but I'm not

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Well, what did you expect? Not every guy is a love em and leave em type. He isn't then one who's not normal in this scenario. I'm sorry, but I hate that stupid phrase, "catch feelings", as if it's somehow wrong for a person to have emotions as a result of intimacy.

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    • Tempest-au
      7 years ago

      You make it sound funny Rose :

      "You bitch! We had a perfectly nice 69 last night, and you gave me feelings you skank!

      God damn, I knew I shouldn't have skipped my emotion shot this year."

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Maybe OP thinks feelings are like cooties?

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        • Tempest-au
          7 years ago

          ROFL - Feelings = Girl Germs. I love it!

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        • Troubled.child
          7 years ago

          Nah just haven't really had feelings for a guy before so I'm a bit confused on what I should do and if he likes me etc

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago

    Since when is a BJ not sex?

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    • Rusty-Rider
      7 years ago

      I remember now, since Bill Clinton!

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    • Troubled.child
      7 years ago

      Well i mean we don't have vaginal sex like penetration lol

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Girls categorize guys nearly instantly. They either give them the tingles, or are friends/providers. When a guy tries crossing categories, the girl will react negatively to him. Maybe even feel betrayed.

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    • IMissMary
      7 years ago

      Its the nature of a female.

      Ever notice how much females like boxes, containers, and things of that sort?

      Subconsciously everything needs to be in a box.

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    • matthewkoehler
      7 years ago

      couldn't have said it any better myself...you captured exactly the nature of the female thought process!

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    • Dаrkt0wn
      7 years ago

      Very true

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    Well, you obviously enjoy this guys company, or you wouldn't "hang out". There is probably something more than "just friends" there, because you are exchanging oral sex - at least you don't find the concept of being with a male repulsive.

    You have 2 choices.
    Try "giving it a go" with this guy - worst case you can break up later.

    OR

    Stop "exchanging favours" with him, as his own idea on the relationship is no longer limited to "we're just friends who fool about occasionally". You'll probably lose him as a friend too as he will not like the adjustment of boundaries, but that's life.

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    • Troubled.child
      7 years ago

      Yeah I do enjoy his company I just never like saw him as someone I could be with ya know? Idk do you think I should give it a go? Like I'm attracted to him I've just not really had a boyfriend before only girlfriends

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        You can't change who you fall in love with, you can either accept it and see where it goes, or reject it and forever wonder.

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        • Troubled.child
          7 years ago

          Yeah you're right, I think I'll see where it goes, can you pm me I wanna ask you something but I'm embarrassed to like put it out on here haha

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          • Tempest-au
            7 years ago

            No problem, PM sent.

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            • Troubled.child
              7 years ago

              Thank youu

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  • Alpha_AF
    7 years ago

    You just admitted to not preferring dudes, yet you suck his dick and offer tug jobs while reminding us all you're not a slut. Emotions happened? You either get on it or move on. Pretty simple.

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  • HeyItsRalph
    7 years ago

    Lol "I am definitely not a slut but.."

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    • Troubled.child
      7 years ago

      Well I'm not a slut? I haven't even had like sex before

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    • Tempest-au
      7 years ago

      Given that I've seen some young girls (such as a stepdaughter of mine) fuck anything with a dick what stood still long enough, no, the OP isn't a slut, at least in my opinion.

      I guess it's relative, I mean some people might think a girl who has sex with more than one person a year is a slut. Occasional hand jobs and oral sex with a someone? Seems very tame to me compared to many others.

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      • 8=====D~~~~
        7 years ago

        Randomly hooking up with lots of men will never be viewed positively for women and randomly hooking up with lots of women will never be viewed negatively for men. All women have to do to get sex is be alive (hell sometimes not even that). There will always be a man willing to have sex with any given woman.

        Women have the treasure chest. All they have to do is sit and wait. Personally, I don't really care how any given woman behaves, but if you think your stepdaughter had a respectable reputation...well she didnt. At all.

        It doesn't matter how hard "women's liberation" or women's rights activists try. This will never change.

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        • Tempest-au
          7 years ago

          Hey, I agree, my step-daughter was totally a "skanky ho". Not that I'm hassling women who do have different partners, but my step-daughter was literally doing a different guy every couple of days. At 15, I kind of thought that was excessive - particularly when the stupid twit often "didn't bother" with condoms because she was on the pill.

          Thankfully it was just a phase, and some 12 months later she settled down with one guy, but she did cause me many sleepless nights wondering what the hell we were going to do with her.

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          • 8=====D~~~~
            7 years ago

            I'm not typing this to be a dickhead, but it probably wasn't a "phase".

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            • Tempest-au
              7 years ago

              No idea - her mother and I parted company, and we fell out of touch. She could be up in Queensland doing the entire Maroons for all I know. Her life, her body, her decision.

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