Is he bored and iin?

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First of all my native language is not English so I might make some mistakes. Anyway, I have a boyfriend for about 3 weeks. I truly love him and want this relationship to last long. I am not dreaming of marriage or something but I want to be happy as long as possible. We used to get along well while we were together. However nowadays, we haven't talked to much. We talk and spend time together when we're at school however we do not talk on msn or phone at night. I texted him an hour ago and he did not reply. He is also online on msn but he hasn't written anything yet. I am waiting him to write something but he doesn't. Today, we did not go to our last to classes and we went to an empty classroom. We kissed there-a lot. And I could understand from his eyes that he really loves me, or at least this is what I want to believe in. I am not sure. I do not want to talk about this with my friends because I know that they will say I am being too paranoid. So is it normal if we do not talk except in school? Or does that mean he is bored from me and from our relationship?

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    If you truly are in love with him then I'm just going to say sorry now for the heartache. Sorry :-(

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  • ck38
    13 years ago

    You only been seeing him for 3 weeks then you say "nowadays we don't seem to speak"! How long did the conversation last, 1 day?
    Forget it and move on.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    No talking and only kissing? You had better rethink his priorities.

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  • carl_isle
    13 years ago

    Choose one: (1) Invest your emotions only if he invites you to. (2) Enjoy his kisses and enjoy whatever comes next, who cares if the emotions are not invested

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Wow magick you should do conferences

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  • Mag!ck
    13 years ago

    Dont be waiting for him please, if you want to talk to him just talk, call him, text him, whatever! Im a girl too and i do not wait for anybody. if something is bothering just say it & see what he says. Be upfront and clear, men are not mind readers, they want girls who dont play games. Tell him... DO NOT WAIT FOR HIM, makes you seem like doormat, no offense i just dont like the typical dynamics of relationships

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  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    I think you need to wait for the relationship to progress some, you sound like highschoolers, in which case you'll both have a lot going on, give him some space. My msn was on 24/7, but I was near it 1hr of the day. Maybe he went outside, got a drink, is showering? Unless you asked a question, he probably doesn't need to answer, maybe he's somewhere he cant.
    Lastly, I wasn't sure if you liked him. You seem to like the relationship, but you didn't really mention liking him. Perhaps he feels the same. You guys need to talk it out next time you skip class to kiss.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Lol ck38 true! I dont understand lol if i was seeing a girl just for sexual/physical interactions i would call her after school too, theres more time and room to do what you gotta do

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    it means he only wants you for sex.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Your English is better than most of the people whose native language it is.

    As for what you posted, it sounds like he's physically interested in you but he doesn't seem to be engaging you emotionally. Maybe he doesn't think he has to. Men are different than women. Or maybe he just doesn't want to. For your own sake, I think you need to find out how he feels.

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