Is he behaving normal

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My husband works. When he comes home he barely acknowledge the kids or me. He goes for a run, comes home, spends half hr in the shower half hour getting dressed. Comes down stairs and makes something to eat and then sits down and watches tv while i sort the kids out do the homework and cook dinner. If they call him for anything he rarely anwers them. I am sick of asking him is he is happy with his life and all he says is that he wants a quiet life!!!! He expects the kids to be seen and not heard. Everything and everyone comes before us. If he is not out running he is fishing on the weekends or watching more tv. Is this normal???

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Based on 94 votes (26 yes)
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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    That is not a happy man. You need to sit him down and have a serious conversation about what he wants and what you want and what's in the best interest of your children.

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    try and please him more sexually. some anal here and there, let him bukkake you and stuff.

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    • kelili
      11 years ago

      I don't know if you're just trying to be funny but in my opinion this is the more sensible answer someone could have given.

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      • redoctober
        11 years ago

        I'm not. I strongly beleive you need to light that sexual fire and get things back on track. Being a little slut at night and make him want you. Let him throat fuck you and feel like a king!

        Just you wait.. things will get better. And while you are doing him, start sayings things like "Im the fucking boss you little bitch!"

        Just try it.

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        • kelili
          11 years ago

          Uuuh I'm not the OP. I'm 25 and have no child. :)

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  • standbyme555
    11 years ago

    Sounds like he's being a little boy. You need to tell him to man up or leave. If he wanted a quiet life he shouldn't gave stuck his penis in you.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    He sounds like an asshole. He is just going through the motions and I think he has become sick of you. All he wants to do is get away and you are your family are a burden to him. He probably does not like his job and only does it to support the all of you. Yet at this point wishes for some more freedom. He should care about his kids and his family but he wont. This seems something that becomes common in marriages over the years. I have not been married but I have seen it happen a lot.

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  • Ridiculist
    10 years ago

    That's not ok, but people get into ruts in relationships. It's definitely time to chat though. He may not even realize how he's acting...

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Sit down and have a long chat with him. Ask him what's wrong with him and state how you would like things to change.

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  • trollbabeinmycave
    11 years ago

    HE hates u get over it. you sound annoying, i would hate u.

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