Is having sex with by ex-boyfriend really cheating?

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I had broke up with my boyfriend, then I started seeing another guy. Then I had sex with my ex-boyfriend, just like I have many times before.

Is having sex with an ex really considered cheating, since I had sex with him 100s of times before I even met my current bf?

No, your ex is a pre-exisitng condition, and doesn't count 5
No, but if you had sex with someone you hadn't before, that counts 0
Yes, even though you fucked him before, you shouldn't keep fucking him 21
Depends, if it was a one time thing, then that's ok 1
None of the above. 2
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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    It's not about whether he's seen you naked or how many times you fucked in the past. If you break up and then make a commitment to someone new, you need to be loyal to the new person. If you moved house, you wouldn't suddenly go back to where you used to live and expect to go in and take a shower, just because you had showered there thousands of times before.

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    • EnglishLad
      6 years ago

      Correct. Excellent analogy.

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    Monogamous relationships only exist to trap people into 9 to 5 jobs by keeping people focused on babies and generic spoonfed acceptable "life goals" and stuff like that. Just do whatever you want. Monogamy is a concept invented by people to control people.

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      6 years ago

      Yeah, but you need to make it clear to the person you're in a relationship with that it's not a monogamous relationship. Cheating is horrible.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    You're cheating. What the fuck. How do you not know what that is?

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  • sararyan7242
    6 years ago

    I'm confused, are you just dating another guy, or is the new guy your boyfriend? If you are just dating, then it's fine.

    You should let the new guy know the ex is still a part of your life, though.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    So if your current boyfriend spent a couple of weeks revisiting each of his exes and repeatedly boffing them, he wouldn't really be cheating on you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I depends if he loves them or not...

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      • Boojum
        6 years ago

        As Tina said, what's love got to do with it?

        If your boyfriend gets in touch with women he's hooked-up with in the past and repeatedly has sex with them again, you wouldn't consider that cheating?

        Or do you mean that if he has sex with a woman he deeply loved in the past, that wouldn't be cheating?

        You and the people you have relationships with can decide whatever ground-rules you want. However, most people consider it cheating if you have sex with someone other than your current partner, regardless of whether you had a prior connection with them and the nature of that connection.

        It's really a very simple concept.

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  • Pussy_Destroyer_69
    5 years ago

    What kind of reasoning is that? Fucking outside a relationship is cheating. As simple as that (unless is an open one of course).

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  • sararyan7242
    5 years ago

    It all depends on the situation... If you are just dating a guy, and say you fucked him a couple times, and then you fucked your ex, then that is no big deal and more like a pre-existing condition. If you are like seriously thinking of marrying the new guy, then fucking your ex along the way, wouldn't be the thing to do.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago

    Read, I am fucking my ex... I've had sex with him before...

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago

    Not seen like one real excuse given yet.

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  • BlueAlice
    5 years ago

    1. Does the new guy know?
    2. Does the ex know?
    3. Out of sheer curiosity : why have you gone back for more?
    4. How does sex with the new guy compare with the ex?
    5. Have you ever done anything like this with other partners?

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  • Babygirl17
    6 years ago

    It's cheating if you are a boyfriend with the other guy but if you're just dating then i's fine!

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  • Hotdogsaregross
    6 years ago

    “Pre existing condition” haha
    And yeah you’re cheating. Duh

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    caught my wife (now ex) having sex with her -------, turns out she never stopped. so was it cheating? fuck yes.

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    • FARTNIGGASBELIKEOOPSISHITTED
      6 years ago

      Who wouldn't cheat on a pathetic cunt like you though? Can't really blame her for not wanting to fuck your ugly ass, even if she was twice as hideous. But this is most likely just another one of your cuck fantasies isn't it boy?

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    • babyhazel
      6 years ago

      define_____

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    • babyhazel
      6 years ago

      plz define ________

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      But I've fucked him many times before, so not like he hasn't seen me naked...

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      • Maid_in_Pink
        6 years ago

        It's not about the act it's about the morality of it. If you don't morally believe it's wrong then it will never click with you that it's wrong.

        If you're with someone generally unless you ask or specify that you want to keep it open it's a given that it'll be exclusive. It doesn't have to be exclusive mind you but it's cheating from a moral standpoint if the other party thinks it is going to be exclusive.

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