Is flirting cheating

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my ex of like years ago sometimes snaps me and initates like sexual convos. he has a gf tho, of a year and a half. he says things like “i remember the things we used to do” and “you look attractive” and brings up sexual things we used to do. sends snaps of him in boxers in bed. is that cheating? should i tell the girl lol? he’s like a good friend honestly and i haven’t seen him in years this is all over snapchat

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Zeikfried

5 years ago

He's not really cheating but more exhibiting an intention to cheat, and although you say he has a girlfriend, I suppose you didn't bother to tell him it's over between you? You're liking the attention, aren't u? lol

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kittykandy

5 years ago

I told a guy that his girl was cheating on him, he went and told the girl that i was the one who pointed it out. she wanted to fight me and it was annoying. sometimes its best not to stress over it.

in other words, it's not your place.

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IrishPotato

5 years ago

Flirting is cheating and I'm European.

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Ummitsstillme

5 years ago

I wouldn't use anything from Africa for advice for anything,just saying.

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- IrishPotato
  
  5 years ago
  
  DO U KNO DA WAY?
  
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SmokeEverything

5 years ago

People can walk around just regular outside wearing underwear, its not a big deal. Its not like being naked or anything. Is he sexy in the underwear? If so you should bang him, monogamy is bullshit.

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- IrishPotato
  
  5 years ago
  
  Monogamy is wonderful.
  
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  - SmokeEverything
    
    5 years ago
    
    Nah not really. It's just boring.
    
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    - IrishPotato
      
      5 years ago
      
      It's absolutely amazing. You'll feel the same way once you find someone you're heads over heels about.
      
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      - SmokeEverything
        
        5 years ago
        
        If you really connect with somebody like that why does it mean that you're both not allowed to have sex with other people?
        
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        MasterChives
        
        5 years ago
        
        Chives would have to agree, Chives is in a long term relationship and Chives and his missus love to go to swingers parties.
        
        After all.
        
        Sharing is caring.
        
        Also booty.
        
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TerriAngel

5 years ago

Don't be a cunt.
Cheating is physical. Duh.
If you're not ok with it then tell him, or block him.
But don't fuck up his relationship over your moral B.S.
That's probably why he dumped you to start with.

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- IrishPotato
  
  5 years ago
  
  How exactly is telling a girl you wanna fuck her or showing your dick to someone not Cheating?
  
  You can't tell me if you had a girlfriend you would appreciate it if she did that.
  
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  - TerriAngel
    
    5 years ago
    
    You are right red.
    But I never invade privacy.
    9 times out of 10 I'm not thinking about the person I'm with.
    I assume they aren't either.
    It benefits knowone to say it.
    
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    - IrishPotato
      
      5 years ago
      
      Just don't do it. Don't fucking cheat.
      
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there_is_no_normal

5 years ago

Flirting is not cheating if they both agreed upon it.

Otherwise flirting might be cheating.

It is or it is not depending on culture you're entangled in.

Flirting is a subtle way of communicating romantic or sexual intent towards a flirtee.

Just ask a guy if they have this agreement about flirting being ok. If he says no, tell him to stop, threaten him to tell his gf about it if he doesn't stop.
If he says yes, then ask his gf whether she confirms his side of the story. If she does - you can flirt with him. If she doesn't, he's in trouble.

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jaystrong

5 years ago

It might not be considered cheating, but it's not right what you're allowing the guy to get away with. Sending dirty pics of himself and talking about your past sexual experiences.
I'd say just cut that guy loose, block him or ask him not to send you stuff like that. If not maybe it's because you like it and I'm sure you're only telling one side of the story. Do you send him pics and text him dirty shit too?
Not to sound judgy, but you asked.
I am sure if your current boyfriend was sending pics to other women and writing to them would you be ok with that?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  nope. idk he just has a flirty personality. and is probably horny and lonely bc he’s back home from college and his gf is in another state... should i tell her
  
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  - jaystrong
    
    5 years ago
    
    I wouldn't tell her. I bet considering he's away from her, doing that to you, he's doing it with others and not just pics. Who knows.
    Let him screw up and get caught redhanded because of someone else. Karma.
    Good luck.
    
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IrishPotato

5 years ago

What he does is cheating. Tell his girlfriend and then leave him alone.

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Anonymous Post Author

5 years ago

he’s not my lover lol

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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

It doesn't sound like you're cheating, but it sounds like he wants to cheat on his current girlfriend. He sounds kinda like a scumbag.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  well i’m not cheating cuz i don’t have a bf. he has a gf tho. and he was flirting a lot and sending pics in his underwear. should i tell her
  
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  - MasterChives
    
    5 years ago
    
    Chives has scrolled through this and...
    
    You so want to tell her, It seems like you are looking for approval to do so. Anyone else would have blocked them or told them straight to stop.
    
    Doesn't seem that you wished to do that.. Hmmmm...
    
    But Chives knows you will tell her. If you haven't done so already.
    
    Do it. Tell her, it could backfire or whatever but who cares right?
    
    Chives wishes you well.
    
    As the saying goes "Snitches get all the bitches"
    
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    - jaystrong
      
      5 years ago
      
      ..... rats get bats!
      
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        5 years ago
        
        And snitches get STITCHES!!! lol
        
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    5 years ago
    
    I dunno if you should tell her or nor, but he's probably not worth wasting your time on though.
    
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  - IrishPotato
    
    5 years ago
    
    You're not the one cheating but morally speaking you're in the wrong as well.
    
    Yes. You should tell her. She deserves to know.
    
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    - jaystrong
      
      5 years ago
      
      Yeah, I just posted she shouldn't. Really not her place and sounds like the guy will screw up at some point anyways without her help. Then I thought about it more. She should just flip a coin to decide. Another post said she's pretty much trying to get approval to do so. The GF should probably know. Then again she's probably just as much in the wrong morally too (as was also stated)
      She never said stop sending pics and who knows if she was egging him on or LOL-ing while he was sending "nasty" things :)
      If she wants to ruin the idiot's week just send the pic of him in his undies to his GF. He'll probably claim it was an old pic but then again you never know if others have already warned her and the count will finally build up and she'll have to believe it.
      
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      - IrishPotato
        
        5 years ago
        
        I still think she should.
        
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