Is consensual intense sadomasochism normal, ethical, and legal?
I have been seeing this woman for a while. She is a prostitute. I don't have sex with her, though. I pay her a good deal amount of money ($250 an hour) to hurt her consensually. I slap her around, beat her up, punch her, pull her hair, twist her nipples, bite her ears real hard, choke her, duck tape her mouth shut, pee on her in the shower, humiliate her, all kinds of stuff. But it's consensual and no one's in any danger.
I'm not asking the ethics or legality behind prostitution. Not to mention I am not having sex with her, so I'm not engaging in illegal prostitution. I am curious about this kind of intense sadomessachism.
(I categorized this under "sex" since it's between two adults and can be considered foreplay, plus I couldn't find a more appropriate category.)